i need a girlfriend...

Discussion in 'Free Thoughts' started by amark317, Sep 18, 2009.

  1. Lori_7 Go to church? I am the church! Registered Senior Member

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    i'm not. i'm giving advice as if i were speaking to a 16 year old who'd never had a girlfriend or sex. do you think he started this thread looking for me to give him a phone number or some chat room addy?

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  3. Mrs.Lucysnow Valued Senior Member

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    No. I was saying that you were not keeping with the drift of what he was saying. Look at what he has written so far in the last two or three posts.
     
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  5. Lori_7 Go to church? I am the church! Registered Senior Member

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    no, you're misunderstanding me i think.

    i have lots of friends that i would NOT want to have sex with. i also find lots of people physically attractive that i would NOT want to have sex with. that is because neither of these factors alone would determine what would make a good mate. but, if you're choosing a mate, my personal opinion is, that it would be great if you could be friends with that person too.

    so, i suppose you could start with either friendship or physical attraction, and go from there, but i wouldn't stop at either of those things. i think a sexual relationship involves a lot more than either of those things. i just thought since he mentioned already having friends that are girls, it might be an ok place to start.
     
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  7. Lori_7 Go to church? I am the church! Registered Senior Member

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    why do you like this girl so much? what is it about her? is she one of your friends?
     
  8. Mrs.Lucysnow Valued Senior Member

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    She's dating someone else. Read post # 19 and 20
     
  9. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    considering all the partying that goes on in Nebraska, it shouldn't be too difficult. Hell, my brother showed up at a party naked and still found someone.

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  10. Mrs.Lucysnow Valued Senior Member

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    LOL. Why was he naked?

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  11. Lori_7 Go to church? I am the church! Registered Senior Member

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    i know. i just wondered why he finds her so attractive.
     
  12. Absane Rocket Surgeon Valued Senior Member

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    Neediness is a HUGE turn off. The fact that you need a girlfriend negates all possibility of even having one.
     
  13. Lori_7 Go to church? I am the church! Registered Senior Member

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    i agree with this.
     
  14. spidergoat pubic diorama Valued Senior Member

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    You could try not being a Nazi.
     
  15. Absane Rocket Surgeon Valued Senior Member

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    I know of a bed wetting commie that managed to get a long term hottie girlfriend. All he did was read books and post on the internet about how much he hated GW Bush. That's about all he did... stay locked up in his room. I'm not sure how he got a girlfriend :-/
     
  16. amark317 game developer-in-training Registered Senior Member

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    i am making my prediction based on the fact that long distance relationships tend not to work.
    and we are friends.

    but i sincerely thank you for making me rethink my motive.
     
  17. amark317 game developer-in-training Registered Senior Member

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    if you look at the picture closely, it says "grammatiker macht frei"
    the joke being that i'm a grammar Nazi, which I am.
     
  18. jpappl Valued Senior Member

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    LOL. Just give your hand a name and have it talk back to you.

    Why do have a Nazi symbol as your avatar ?
     
  19. amark317 game developer-in-training Registered Senior Member

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    well don't you look stupid...
     
  20. jpappl Valued Senior Member

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    You most likely will always only be her friend.

    In fact, is there is an ounce of desire for you, she will be much more interested if you have another girl on your arm.

    Meanwhile, while your waiting for the perfect one, you might have found another perfect one you can have relations with right now.

    Have some guts, take a chance, realize there will be rejection, without taking the chance there will be nothing gained for sure.
     
  21. amark317 game developer-in-training Registered Senior Member

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    oh, and i don't broadcast my neediness, just on here, the internet, where you can be anonymous
     
  22. jpappl Valued Senior Member

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    My bad, I didn't blow it up to read it.

    Wasn't accusing you of anything anyway, I just asked the question.
     
  23. amark317 game developer-in-training Registered Senior Member

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    but i don't want to risk the friendship.
    i have 2 consecutive classes with this girl until Christmas.
    i don't want that to be awkward.
     

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