i agree. share eachothers fantasies and desires, and work from there. that way you'll both gain the pleasure that you are seeking.
According to Monica of the TV show Friends don't be a camper. According to American Pie use different licking techniques while giving her oral pleasure.
I heard different chemicals in her drink will "help" her get in the mood. Watch out though. It can make her a bit drowzy so put her in the trunk of your car.
Honestly, here's my advice...begin with a massage ( both people nude). Touch her and allow your body to rub against her ( not necessarily trying to be sexual). Kiss her neck, nibble on her ear, kiss her all over. Put on some good music, like Enya or soft sounds like that. Candles and Incense are also good. Most importantly, while making love, feel the connection between the two of you. If in missionary position ( male on top), hold her with one arm while making love to her. Being a good lover isn't about technique really. It's about closeness and most of all LOVE.
I like to give a nice stare right into her eyes as hold her arms under her legs off the bed and start pulling. Harder and harder. When your done say wokka wokka wokka Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
If you are a male this question seems odd. never mind... Press your mouth against her orifice and blow the air into it till no more air is left out in your lungs.
.. don't forget to step back immediately. the return flow of air into your lungs would make you sick and cause brain damage. alternatively you can use a vacuum cleaner with blower function turned on.
There is no "technique". Every woman I have been with likes different things. To please them you have to be open to understanding them and their reactions. It is also important to have open communication.
Give them your credit card and let them get whatever they want. Wait till they come back home and you'll find out how much they want to make love to you.
