according to who ? what your doing is applying social observations by outsiders(third person perspective non experiencer) to a complex biochemical situation where emotions and biochemistry nurture and nature all mix together. your application is just zeal nothing more. you do not engage on topics which clearly suggests you have not done your own research on the matter. where as i have and for some decades. there is plenty of time left in your life to be an ignorant stick in th emud if you choose to be... but ! why condemn yourself to a life of ignorance just because some sexually repressed religious extremist tells you to ? are you incapable of doing your own study and making up your own mind ? did they neglect to teach you "how" to learn ?