Have you ever been called rude?

How long are you going to :wallbang: They just don't get it.
In post after post, it is pretty much repeating the same thing.

In their opinions, if someone gets offended or hurt by what you might say, it's their problem not yours. They should grow some balls or get a thicker skin etc.
You are just wasting your time with this one enmos.

 

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Based on my personal experience, actually I guess it is a multicultural misunderstanding.

In my class I have some latin american friends. They are from Brazil, Chile, Argentina,
and Mexico. Most of them are pretty straight talking and loud, what some
people consider rude could be seen as normal for them.

In my former office which is a Japan company, if we make eye contact during
meeting, it is consider as rude. So, when I had to do presentation in front of
them, I tried not to look at one Japanese person more than 3 consecutive
seconds

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. Nobody also look at me, they are either look at my slide or at
their own notes.

When more than one culture meet, I think people should adapt and increase
the level of tolerance... We should be a bit more tolerant to Varda, and Varda
should be a bit careful to us, lol

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Otherwise clash happens. :shrug:

 

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...emmm...I don't get it what the point of coming to the meeting if noone is looking at anyone and anything ?

 

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we do hearing

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Seriously, thats the way it works

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Pretty strange for me
in the beginning, but with time I got used to it.

 

Pls see at the bold part..

http://www.all-about-teaching-english-in-japan.com/japaneseetiquette.html

Unravel Some of the Mystery in Japanese Etiquette...

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sweet, thanks Inzomnia...maybe with this brand new social skillz I can find a japanese bride for myself.

 

Just don't get offended if she hardly look you in the eye.. j/k

This really happens:

http://au.answers.yahoo.com/answers2/frontend.php/question?qid=20080121175334AAVRc8i :shrug:

 

yeah well I am not asian

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it will be real hard finding any Asian girl to like me

 

I see alot more and more white guys where I live with Asian women. Granted they aren't "hot" like what you are looking for.

 

If you live in US maybe.. Chance is higher if you live in Japan/Asia. :shrug:

Oh what are we talking about?

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I gtg now, c ya!

 

I am open to any. :bawl: I am slowly turning into a darksidZz scenario, no girlfriend, no life ...

 

lol

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c ya

 

I know.

 

awwwwwwwwwwww Well where I live I can see finding a "nice" girl isn't an easy task. There are a hell of alot of snouty bitches, more interested in what car you drive than what kind of person you might be.

 

yeah. I met this russian girl online, trying to tie it with her, seems like the conversation is going nicely, but she is in Russia and I am here...:bawl:

 

That's the problem with getting attached to someone online. Usually they don't live anywhere remotely close or turn out to be married

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yup, yup, but I got no other options.

 

It's so much easier for women. You go out somewhere and men just come up to you. Then you can decide if you want to talk further with someone, especially if you are shy like me. I would have a really hard time, if it was on my shoulders to go up and start a conversation with a guy. When I was single though, I did meet a few ppl in person that I had met online.

 

yeah but I am alive and in this situation here

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got any solutions? I mean my plan is to find a girl online in Russia, talk a year or so, meet in summer, come to like each other...see were it goes, commit to her, meet to live together under one roof, marry her. Heh, what do you think?

 

that by your definition, they are not rude