Okay, so I guess my real question is this: how does nature know what traits to keep and which ones are/will become useless? In that case, how does nature "know" anything?
Hey, you're the one who anthropomorphized Mother Nature. I was just using your paradigm to make you comfortable. Computers don't "know" anything either, but their processes produce results vaguely similar to the results of our cognitive processes. As do some natural processes.
For a creatures tail so slowly shrink to disappear over millions of years, doesn't something need to be switched in our genetics? Who/what does the switching? It couldn't have been a planned change as the evolution depends on the success and environment of the animal, so how do these changes come about?
Ground-dwelling herbivores with long sturdy tails made of delicious muscle tissue are going to be captured and eaten by predators at a statistically higher rate than their relatives in the next tribe with shorter tails. Each generation is going to have statistically fewer survivors with long tails to propagate. Tails keep getting shorter until they are barely visible, like the reptilian scales on a bird's foot, or until they are there but invisible, like a whale's vestigial pelvis, or until they're gone completely, like our tails.
Or am I looking at the scale of all this all wrong?
I suspect you are because most people have that problem. We can barely comprehend the time span of two thousand years between the heyday of the Roman Empire and today, even though almost every moment of it is documented in continuous and intricate detail in languages we can still read. How many of us can conceptualize the additional six or seven thousand years, during most of which there was no written language, going all the way back to the dawn of civilization? How many people can truly grasp the incredibly important events that occurred during that period--often so slowly that no one
at the time sensed them? The merging of a couple of large villages into the first city as people who were complete strangers to each other tried living together; the invention of writing; the discovery that some molten rocks yielded metal and that metals could be alloyed and worked into useful shapes; that grains could be refined and stored almost indefinitely; that cats could be allowed to live among us and keep rats from eating the grain and pooping in it?
These things happened in the blink of an eye compared to the changes in earth's flora and fauna wrought by evolution. The entire technology of civilization was developed in ten thousand years. The polar bear, the most recent new vertebrate species I can name offhand, is twenty times older than that. The current form of the polar bear's
molar teeth is older than civilization.
People just can't grasp how long a million years is, much less ten million years, much less a hundred million years. So we have no intuition to trust, regarding just what might reasonably be able to happen during that time.
How many primates does it take to lose a tail and differentiate into apes? How about
several million generations of them!