City Revives Paddling, sees major improvement in Behavior

not saying your a bad parent at all if u dont like a paddle use your hand ^_^ but thats up to the parent what i have a problem with is saying spanking is abuse with lasting psychological effects which couldnt be further from the truth

 

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ehh much less people parents spank there kids now adays so your argument fights agianst itself there. and yes i do unless you live on a different planet than i do.. kids are now getting pregnant as young as 14 the respect children/kids give you is non exsistant you must live on pandora i want to go there

 

id really like to see this research where are you getting this information? i was spanked all of the time 0 - effect on me had my parents not takin it to spanking i gaurentee id be in jail/prision right now.. it doesnt leave psychological scare thats pure poppycock.. giving childrent impression tha violence is acceptabe? are you kidding? spanking a kid for doing something wrong shows them there will be consequence for there actions should then not listen to you.. let me look around

seems there is alot saying they do leave psychological scars i dont really need to cite anything i know that spanking worked for me and i dont have any emotional scars thats why i think this research is bullshit.. i dont ever fight i dont want to i avoid it. i dont have self image issues i have no psychologial problems at all. having gone thru it i know that reasearch can say what it wants but it is bullshit

 

Bells,
I notice you are still scrupulously failing to address the point that, by definition, paddling and spanking - correctly applied - are not violence.
You cite the selective research indicating pyshological scars caused by corporal punishment, but avoid considering the scars that may be created when parents use violent non-corporal methods, born out of frustration.

 

bells smacking is abuse if you ever hit your child in the face you should be put in jail spanking is not abuse. if applied correctly its not abuse at all altho u keep saying smacking i would never ever ever smack my child i would spank them given i feel it was earned im not going to spank my child for throwing something at my 2nd child.. now if he keeps doing it after the 3rd of 4th time i will give one last warning then i will spank

 

had my parents hadnt taken control of my behavior problems when i was young. yes i would have been in jail had they ignored it or let them grow i would be in jail.

as i have said before i dont need a study to show it doesnt im living proof of it.. do you need proof that your hair is brown? our you laugh if tickled a certin way? if someone told you no i have a study that shows people dont laugh when ticked that certin way. so i dont need to look up studies i already know.

no adults wont be hit as a consequence for there actions depending on there actions the will be put in jail or prision which is much worse. again ihave NOOO idea why you are compairing spanking an adult to a child there are 2 completely different entities.

I am an adult so no my boss doesnt spank me.. again this is the last time im going to respond to you if you compaire spanking a child. to hitting an adult we are talking about children here not adults.

SPANKING a child is not assault HITTING an adult is.
if you go by what is spanking a child going to teach them about life and consequences then why parent them at all?
if you use spanking as a last resort it will teach the child that you need to listen to the athorities in your life if you dont the consequences will keep getting worse
to put it in your mind set when your an adult and you speed you are given a ticket.. then 2nd ticket is higher the 3 ticket is even higher and you get your lisence taken away keep driving? you go to jail. get out of jail and you still keep driving but this time you kill someone? death penelty may be enforced
what is timeout going to theach them about consequences?

 

Yes, the evidence cited only refers to heavy physical abuse.

Sifreak:
Teen pregnancy has always occurred. The cultural norm was to keep it hush hush, marry the daughter off immediately, etc.
Fortunately, recent times have seen a change in that. This provides healthier living for mothers and children.

Bells:
The claim that modern children are more disrespectful is apparent on all fronts.
Additionally, many people are making poorer choices entering into adulthood.

Personally, I do not think this ties into spanking OR Corporal punishment.

However, a change HAS been made to how we treat children that has given us this result.
Determining that change would be very helpful to this topic. It's understandable that some might attribute that to the change in practice of spanking or corporal punishment.

 

Are you saying that spanking leads to a lack of wise choices made later in life?
You still seem to think that spanking is THE FIRST option used.

Again, this is NOT necessarily the case.
Every parent I have ever met that spanks uses it when All Other Methods have failed. These parents DO Explain it. They explain it til blue in the face and the child ignores it and continues the bad behavior.

I have repeatedly asked you to answer:
What do you DO with those children that Refuse to acknowledge all attempts at reason and discipline Prior to the last resort, Bells?

 

is that because they are not allowed to vote?

 

bells your a very selective reader and only answer certin questions.. i havve asked you not to use smack you continue to.. its SPANK. and SPANKING is only use as a last resort all other options have been extinguishted.. and im fairly confident you wont answer the question presented to you about what to do if none of your grounding. timeout s dont work. again your thought is wrong your twisting what were saying you said

"I see people get upset if they don't get their own way immediately. And impatience leads to poor decision making"

didnt think id have to do this but
"child will contunte to do said action after every punishment"
please dont trown the ball timmy

timmy dont throw the ball serious look

go over to child get down to there level look into childs eyes timmy i said dont throw the ball takes the ball away

timmy grabs another ball.

timmy go sit in the corner for 5 min. time out

timmy gets out of timeout grabs a ball and throws it..

timmy get to your room now! your grounded

timmy gets out of his room comes downstairs and starts throwing the ball again

timmy gets spanked

 

bells my parents did take me to a professional for behavior problems guess what? didnt work then what do you do?

 

here we go bells if this fails then i give up. since you keep compareing children to adults for some unknown reason ill but it in your ters

Police are your parents
grown man/woman is the child

now answere this for me

cop asks you to do something you are insubordinate

cop asks you again your still insubordinate

cop tells you to get down on the ground insubordinate

cop either tazes your or uses force to get you to do what they say your now handcuffed and going to jail for insubordinate
depending on how insubordinate you were
you could be charged with assualting an officer along with insubordination
now your in jail