Quite honestly, I think the ideal man is comfortable somewhere between his Mother's genes and his Dad's genes. I mean face it, we are not products of two men and yet many man act out and posture as if they were. I mean, manliness has gotten so over the top and out of hand. I think it would be better off if this tendency toward more aggression than women we men have would be better off if was bred out of the gene pool. It tends us the use violence as a solution for everything. We should recognize we are always going to be the product of both a male and a female and it follows that it would be more real to honor both our masculine and feminine traits, not just suppress the feminine ones as we do because society has filled our brains with male posturing BS. There would probably be a lot less wars and people killed from aggression if you took male aggression out of the human equation.