Yeah sure we say "fuck you" to men, and it is supposed to be a great put down! But you must understand that our language represents and incorporates our pressures and the social mechanism to oppress men. This is part of the strategy developed by the society to keep men continually in struggle with their same sex needs. Ridicule is the strongest weapon against men. And receptive anal sex has been feminised and denigrated since at least two thousand years --- as part of the social conspiracy to ween men away from men in order to harness them into the marriage yolk.