Is there a name for this?

I have something i like too call Virginphilliac lol (untill i find a real name for it ). I would never ever have anything to do with a girl that has had sex with others. I wouldnt ever give one a chance even no matter how I felt about them. The point is not too bash me here because I have heard it all already like youll be alone for ever bla bla bla bla bla I dont care. The question is...is there a name for such a thing and hey I figured that if there is a name for such a stupid thing as tritretraphobia (fear of the number 13) then why not this?

 

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It's not really a phobia I guess it's just a preference in women. I have to admit that I have the same preference and coincidently, so does my girlfriend (same thing just opposite).

The only explaination I can give is that you want to be the one and only one for someone special.

I have no idea what it's called but that fear of the number 13 is as stupid as verbophobia or something which is fear of long words :bugeye:

 

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Maybe

what do you mean same thing but opposite?

Verbophobia :bugeye:

 

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Well, instead of the girl having intercourse with another person, it would be a guy (like myself) having intercourse with another person.

I just hope this is normal cos I only know three people now (including me) who are like this :bugeye:

 

it is a syndrome called: 'lack of appreciation for all women'

 

'I have to fuck women who don't realize how small my dick is (and are tight enough to think it's larger than it is) because I'm a shitty lover'

 

Oh wait...
Let me try...

Let me put this together...

I guess it depends on WHY you feel this way...


The world revolves around them and nothing outside that little self proclaimed, self contained universe is of any significance?


That would be self-absorbed.



So self absorbed and self centered that one can not realize or accept that other people even exist in this life let alone that one of these other people may have had, or currently have a relationship with the person they are trying to posess?

Tough one. There are many words to describe this.
I think egomaniacal would fit best here.




Too weak of a self image to allow themselves to be in a relationship with someone that has something to compare them to. Inability to NOT be the best she has ever had (at least up to this point)?

Easy one. That would be insecure.



To obsessive to consider the person they want to own having feelings for another, even if it was in the past.

hmmm...
Obsessively possessive?
Maybe a megalomaniac (or would that be a stretch?)



Needing to be the number one and best in someone's life for the rest of their lives? Wanting to feel like Marco Polo discovering new lands? Wanting to be remembered for their deeds? Wanting to make her scream for the first (and best) time? Wanting to think of her remebering her first time fondly years to come while fondling the shower nozzle after another night of not being as pleased as she was with her first and best?

Delusions of Grandeur.



Perhaps you think that if a woman is not a virgin then she is a dirty whore? And you can't BE with a dirty whore unless you are the one who sullied her? You don't TAKE second hand dirty whores, you LEAVE second hand dirty whores?

Well then, that would be hypocritical.


I think we need more background information and reasoning as to why you:

before we can help you find the exact word.

English is an exacting language.
Some even consider it an art.
I wouldn't want you to be misinformed.
So, tell us...

WHY?

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oops.

Stuffed THAT ONE up, didn't I?

 

It's more likely to end in "philic" than "phobic." Phile meaning loving; so it would be virginphilic except the first part is probably still wrong.

 

What, woah, this is a little weird. Gone a litte coo coo la la

Who's to say it's insecurity, maybe it's fear. I don't quite know how to expand on that so uhm yeah. Guess that's the same thing isn't it?

I have to agree that not having a relationship with someone who has been with someone else is a bit ridiculous.
Maybe PacingYourName should just jump in with both feet in the deep end without a life jacket? Just ignore that fact.

I guess the direction I was coming from was because I am involved with someone and I don't think I could look at my girlfriend the same if she had sex with someone else during our relationship. I am fairly confident that won't happen though.

But he's not in a relationship (are you?) so just go for it, take it on the chin. It's just like eating Marmite! You may not like it but it's something you're gonna have to do someday!

 

virginophobia possibly means 'fear for virgin'.

 

Umm... what does this have to do with the topic? I'd be upset (understatement) if my fiancee had sex with some other guy during our relationship. Wouldn't matter whether she was a virgin before that or not. That isn't what pacingyourname is asking.

As for one raven, maybe pacing is religious and/or just being careful of getting a disease. One of my oldest friends had a choice to make a few years ago. He was thinking of marrying his girlfriend when she told him she had herpes. They are married happily now, but I know it was the toughest choice he's ever had to make. At the time, he surprised me by maturing a couple years in about 2 months. We talked about it a lot, but it is a tough thing to go through.

 

It's very normal Thor....Actually it is how things should be. My hubby was 26 when we got married and he was like that...He is very normal and loves sports. Knowing that you can withhold from having sex as a teenager, I know that you are strong enough to handle and resist any undesirable situation in your life in the future.

 

Actually, there is. Parthenophobia is the fear of virgins or young girls.

:m: Peace.

 

Parthenophobia? so whats the opposite of this?

I dont believe I am a hypocrite since I do believe that you cant ask for something unless you are able too give it in return.

I dont hate myself and I am not full of myself I just am.

I simple cant look at my relationship the same way then and cant put all my effort into it.

I simply have a fear of some asshole come by my house and ringing the doorbell and laughing his ass of while he says "haha I fucked your girlfriend/wife" ( that was a dream

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But if sex isnt the only thing you can share with someone you love then what is ..ppshshht nothing and if it is nothing then whats the point if they have already shared it with someone else?

 

What sort of man would fuck anyone but a whore anyways?

Pacingyourname:

Seek psychological help immediately.
I'm serious. Run, do not walk, but run to the nearest psychiatrist.

 

I dont think i need one plus i dont get along with shrienks

They think they know everything when in turn they know nothing.

but i dont think thats the kind of help I need. I am fine its just how I feel.

I hate psychiatrists! ( my opinion)

 

Pacingyourname is their a certain reason you feel this way??...is it the thought of other guys having been inside of her?? Fear or viral infection from sexual intercourse??

 

Thats me Xev, thanks for the elightenment.. where are the rest of those recently graduated chatholic school girls hiding.. i have to take advantage of them, and quick.

 

I'd like my girl a little experienced. It makes for funner sex

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I would prefer to marry a virgin myself so I do know what this guy is talking about, although it is not the most important thing in the world and I wouldn't base my decision on it. There are a couple girls that I know that I would marry in a second, one is not a virgin and one is.

Overall, I would say that marrying a virgin would be great but not because of what Xev said, that is a load of crap for the most part. She doesn't know how unsufferable and unenjoyable it is for any guy without the most abnormally huge penis to have sex with a girl that is too loose. Xev is just being evil because she won't admit that even a small penis is better than a loose vagina.