Depends on what broke it. Death of a dearly beloved? Not much. Just remember the good times and find something to kill the time until it's your turn to go. If you're young still, carry the good memories with you as you continue to write chapters for you life. Somebody leave? Relationship over? You don't own anybody, and you can't make them change their minds. Suck it up. To put it more gently, don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened. I'm no stranger to heartbreak. We were roommates for a long time.
Do the activities you like the most to set your mind on something else while time passes. Time is really the only thing that helps.
There is very little that you can do, my friend. Once you've been through it a couple of times you'll realize that it eventually heals itself. That almost helps. The last time it happened to me I tried as objectively as I could to compare life as it was to the way life would be if the love had never existed. I decided that I was better off with the combination of a love I would never forget and a pain that I certainly would forget, than to have had neither. You need all the love of other kinds that you can get right now. Be a social creature. Spend time with your friends and family. Keep chatting with us here. Avoid the temptation to skip work or school. Your dog will always love you. If you don't have one, now would be a good time to get one. I'm so sorry for you.
Hmm, if he gets a dog now, he'll learn what real love is ...and probably won't ever want to marry a damned woman! Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! Baron Max
For some disappointments, it helps to consider the following. Do not be sorry that it is over. Be happy that it happened and get on with your life. Do not waste time, energy, or emotional resources on circumstances over which you have no control. I hope to have ability to ignore the problems over which I have no control, the courage & intelligence to cope with the problwms which I can control, and especially the wisdom to tell which problems belong in each category.
Wallow in it to your hearts content. Let it wash over you. Grieve for your loss. Slowly reengage life. Things will get better with time, I guarantee it.
thank you all Feel a bit better now. Suppose you just have to deal with it dont you, and in your own way. Im doing constructuve things,writing things down taking my mind of things. You often question things more when your like this dont you.
Put on a wig, a trench coat, and a diaper and drive 900 miles to Florida to give the biatch a piece of your mind.
