I will look for you when you leave the land of listening to yourself talk and come over to the world of facts and reality. Maybe you will be a polite conversational person with an open mind, willing to listen to new ideas by then?
I was raised that ignoring people was rude. Even if the crazy relatives came over, we were still supposed to be polite to them and ensure they had a good time. They were our relatives and fellow human beings. We wanted them to be polite to us when we went over there for dinner.
We called it courtesy. I think it must have got thrown out of society somewhere for some newfangled technological thing that is better. Like phone trees for customer service.