Exactly. Women have to learn how to compromise and make choices. Its the hierarchy I was referring to. Women have to look at it and revise it and decide what is important to carve out for themselves. One can get an education and later have children. What is challenging is to complete high degrees and then go on and build a challenging and rewarding career, earn financial independence AND have kids. Its like women now are looking up at 40 and saying 'oh shit I forgot something' its really quite sad.