I think of it as a biochemical cascade starting a multitude of processes, with triggering conditions for starts and feedbacks for stops to particular growth sequences - eg threshold tensions on
micro-
tubules triggering chromosomes to separate and produce messenger molecules that make their way along them to the other end with a 'stop' signal. The microtubule tension pulls them apart during cell division -
(Drew Barry's animations of biochemical processes are awesome - what is being represented is amazing but not something I think any intelligence could design).
There is no 'blueprint' or any 'memory' as such, yet key sequences of DNA hold the key triggers and other sequences of DNA are triggered in turn; no outside (God) agency involved or required. Very complex, yes, yet each reaction (molecules binding to other molecules in specific ways, which may result in a new one - or in several - making the necessary components and triggers for other combinations. Not random combinings and breaking apart but very specific sequences of reactions.