Why? Nothing you ask for would make your idea stronger. You are the one making extraordinary claims and therefore the burden of proof that you aren't an insane nutter who makes up stories is on you. Importantly, you don't win by default if I don't answer the questions you pose.
your observational data or logical inference about light, is it a particle or wave or both?
Light behaves like a quantum particle, which has a specific meaning that you haven't yet demonstrated education sufficient to understand. As a result, both double-slit interference and quantized transfers of energy and momentum are expected for both photons and electrons and other quantum particles.
Science isn't about metaphysical truth, only agreement between behaviors in reality and in theory. Questions about what something fundamental in theory "is" or what "mechanism" underlays specific fundamental behavior are unevidenced questions of metaphysics.
While some questions of metaphysics may simply remain to be asked in the future, there is no rational expectation that empirical epistemology will ever be able to answer questions about what fundamental objects in some future theory "really are" or about "mechanisms" more fundamental than the most fundamental physical theory, because if we had a way to get evidence of that true identity or mechanism then the most fundamental physical theory would not be the one we were discussing.
i really wish to peacefully discuss science, don't have the merit?
Then you need to support your claims with postive evidence, such as good agreement between reality and what you claim about reality.
if you able to debunk my theories
"Theory", like "particle", doesn't mean what you think it means.
A scientific theory is a precise, communicable description of the behavior of phenomena over a wide field of related things.
What you have in post #63 is a collection of unevidenced claims about reality which run counter to three trivial observations known for a minimum of one hundred years. It is not a framework for predicting anything in reality because those counterexamples show it is inferior both to reality and leading physical theories.
The intellectually honest thing for you to do is to explicitly acknowledge that each rebuttal or clarification in post #64 merits your full attention.
The forum rules require you to explicitly withdraw your claims, strongly support your claims in the face of all human observation including those mentioned in post #64, or face future moderator action for posting in the wrong section. Remember the first rule of holes is that when you are stuck in a hole, don't dig it deeper.
a thought experiment about gravity.
You are also misusing the term "thought experiment" -- where you have to fully specify which theoretical framework you are using, because the predictions of different theories are different. But even in your sloppy presentation, you have identified two major differences between gravity and electrostatics -- gravity is always attractive and differs in strength from electrostatic attraction. By moving the spheres you need a theory of electrodynamics, not electrostatics and thus you introduce the feature of the finite propagation speed of electromagnetic waves. That is not a feature of Newton's theory of gravity, but it is of Einstein's. And Einstein's theory differs qualitatively in how much moving gravitational sources radiate than Maxwell's theory of electrodynamics in a way that has been confirmed at matching reality by observation of binary neutron stars.