unacceptable behavior in a poster

If you'd paid attention, you wouldn't have to wait. Or maybe it's not about paying attention, since asking for what's already on the record is hardly a method unheard of around Sciforums.

I mean, if there's some part that confuses you, by all means, let me know. But when you offer such a general complaint, as you tend to when asking for what's already on the record, there's not much people can do to help you.
This is a cop-out meant to avoid answering the question directly and is exactly what I am talking about. Try to avoid redirecting the issue in your responses. "It's already on record" usually just means "I can't actually find any specific examples or justifications for what I said." It's similar to people in the natural sciences forum who make a conspiracy theory claim and when pressed for evidence, tell people to go "look it up yourself" and "I'm not here to do your homework." Usually those people are banned for trolling.
But, then again, that seems to be the point. After all, it's what allows you to say, "Yeah, they probably won't want to answer that one." Or "I wouldn't be surprised if you don't want to answer these questions", or whatever else you can come up with when asking for what's already on the record.
So quote what is already on record. That's what we do any time somebody wants you to quote some evidence for a claim that you make in the science forums: pulling information or examples that are on documented and "on record" somewhere so that we can all view it. This is a hard concept for some, I recognize. BR isn't the only person to recycle talking points. So let's see posts by the people who berate BR also berating joepistole, pjudude, and others who act similarly. And let's hear why those people are excused and BR is being attacked for it.
Because that's the whole point. Ask for what's already on the record, and then complain when people either reiterate themselves, or point out that the question is so broad that they can only reiterate themselves.
And the answer still doesn't come. :rolleyes:

Part of the problem I have answering your vagary in this case is that the context
Nah, the problem you have with answering is that tackling certain questions is being direct and forthcoming and that's probably something you hate. Instead you comment on the situation or attack the post author and produce long-winded responses that most people skim over instead of read. It sounds like you when you went to school, you missed out on the rather crucial part where you are told to make your points succinctly and with brevity. It makes for effective writing, so you should probably try it some time.
Joe has his own choices to make, and he will make them as he sees fit. But I didn't include him because he's symptomatic of the original problem, which was the number of exceptions we made for low-quality, even belligerent posts in part to bolster (or, at the very least, preserve) what we might describe as our "conservative" ranks.
But joepistole makes low quality and belligerent posts all the same. He prefaces many of his posts with "LOL." When someone uses "LOL" in front of their sentence in all caps, it is usually meant to attack people instead of to debate ideas. If you want to ban BR for this bad faith crappola, then you have to apply the rule more uniformly.

Does that answer your question, or has that question sufficiently evaded an answer so that you can feel your self-dependent prophecy has been fulfilled?
No. You've done a poor job again.
 
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Wah!Wah! Wah! Come on Willnever why not try truly debating this issue! Your only interest here is to argue w/ Tiassa, as usual! Seems like you too have a personal vendetta!
 
WillNever said:
When someone uses "LOL" in front of their sentence in all caps, it is usually meant to attack people instead of to debate ideas.

In my experience, posters who start with "LOL" or put it in the middle of a detailed argument usually really mean "I have no idea how to respond validly and thoughtfully to the point I just quoted and I'm nervous. So, I'll try to cover up my incompetence and nerves by attempting to belittle you by dismissing the point with fake laughter. I really hope that works. It sure strokes my ego, and that's the best I can hope for given that I have no real answer to your point."
 
Wah!Wah! Wah! Come on Willnever why not try truly debating this issue! Your only interest here is to argue w/ Tiassa, as usual! Seems like you too have a personal vendetta!

Why are you posting here? Is your only interest to argue with WillNever?

What's your take on the "issue"?

PS Pleased to make your acquaintance. I believe this is the first time I've directly addressed you.
 
In your opinion. In my opinion, EFC calling GeoffP "kaffir" was intended as, and equivalent to, calling him "dirty, sub-human unbeliever f**k".

Thankfully we have no Sri Lankans on the forum who may have a general concern about being seen as being "sub human".

Those people are banned essentially for trolling and/or flaming and/or insults, not for hurt feelings on the part of moderators/administrators.

Personally, I find being compared to a Nazi to be insulting. The archetypal Nazis, after all, were genocidaires and fascists who basically stood for many of the things I am personally strongly against. I think it would be fair to say that most people would be insulted to be called a Nazi.
Yes.

Because to be insulted means that our feelings are somewhat hurt.

We are human.

Everybody has a mother.
Yes. But does your mother, for example, have to enter into the conversation if we are discussing Australian politics? No, it does not and should not. Buffalo's use of 'your mommy' is meant as an insult.

Did you read the quote from BR that pj gave in his opening post? BR wasn't at any point talking about pj's mother.
BR has been mentioning people's "mommy" for a while now. He uses it to denigrate the people he argues against.

And we have a member who feels insulted by that.

Should we treat it the same as with the member who felt insulted by being called a Kaffir?

Here was the standard you applied then:

As somebody else pointed out, when it comes to insults, three things are potentially important:

(a) the intent of the person delivering the language
(b) the way the language is received and perceived by the recipient
(c) the way the entire exchange is perceived by third parties who observe
it


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This is especially true where in the first instance the perpetrator has been asked directly to cease and desist yet stills persists with the unwelcome offensive behaviour.



http://www.sciforums.com/showthread.php?t=106695&page=19



After all, as you made sure we understood, just because others don't feel a term is insulting does not mean that someone else is not insulted by it. So pj feels it is insulting that buffalo makes constant reference to his mother when he has no need to.

Now issue here is whether you wish to continue with that same standard and apply it equally to all members? Or do we just tell everyone who feels insulted on this forum that they just need to grow a thicker skin regardless?

I agree completely. And if BR ever did denigrate the care pj has for his mother etc. then I would quite happily ban BR. That has not happened, as far as I am aware.
Do a search on his posts. BR uses "your mommy" argument quite a few times and each time it isn't received well because it is denigrating and it is insulting.

Here we have one member at least saying he's had enough and he wants it to stop. Should he have a right to make such a request like others made the request with certain terms in the past?

Where was anything personal about his mother mentioned? The only thing that was mentioned was that pj lives with his mother (according to BR). pj could easily reply and say "BR, there's nothing wrong with living with my mother, and the fact that I do so has nothing to do with failing to grow up." Or, pj could just say "BR, your comments about my personal life are unwelcome and off-topic. Please cease and desist from such comments in future." But then, of course, pj couldn't legitimately tell BR to "grow up" and not expect BR to reciprocate with a "grow up" comment of his own. You can't hand out one behaviour to others and expect to get back different yourself.
It's not the "grow up" that is the real issue here.

It is the mention of his mother and using it to denigrate and insult.

As in 'why haven't you moved out of home yet, blah blah blah, hiding behind your mother's skirt or in one post I found today, he mentioned about being under his mother's table in a way that could be construed as being insulting'.. Pj is currently living at home to help care for a sick parent. Something I know a lot of people who are doing exactly the same thing, including some in my own family.

At the end of the day, one could ask what pj's mother has to do when discussing US politics or the situation in the Israeli/Palestinian conflict and why she or anyone else's mother has to be mentioned at all...? I am still trying to figure that one out.

Pj feels insulted. BR mentioned his mother to be insulting and denigrating. We all know it and see it.

There's standard a), b) and c) fulfilled when it comes to insults.

The only reports I've ever seen of such a thing have come from pj.
And?

So what?

It only takes one person to be insulted, doesn't it?
 
Why are you posting here? Is your only interest to argue with WillNever?

What's your take on the "issue"?

PS Pleased to make your acquaintance. I believe this is the first time I've directly addressed you.

Lol, touche! Hi James, pleased to make yours as well.

In my short time on this site I have gotten the impression that there are several posters that are simply whiners. Acting like children(tattle tales) for the smallest perceived slight, and many times these posters (you know who you are) are hijacking those threads w/ their personal vendettas,turning it into a pissing contest!

Personal attacks should never be allowed that is a given, but moderators(not sure who some of you are) cannot and should not allow these posters to either drag them into their personal feuds or have their own feuds w/ members even when members consistently egg them on.

The debates on this forum IMO are for the most part educational, informative and animated and I love it!

I think some of the members being called out for their own unexceptable behavior tend to blame the moderators and their methods than accepting responsibility for their own lack of control!

For the most part the moderators appear to keep a pretty good handle on bad behavior and are open enuf to give members insight into their own opinions and disagreements.
 
Thankfully we have no Sri Lankans on the forum who may have a general concern about being seen as being "sub human".


Yes.

Because to be insulted means that our feelings are somewhat hurt.

We are human.


Yes. But does your mother, for example, have to enter into the conversation if we are discussing Australian politics? No, it does not and should not. Buffalo's use of 'your mommy' is meant as an insult.


BR has been mentioning people's "mommy" for a while now. He uses it to denigrate the people he argues against.

And we have a member who feels insulted by that.

Should we treat it the same as with the member who felt insulted by being called a Kaffir?

Here was the standard you applied then:

As somebody else pointed out, when it comes to insults, three things are potentially important:

(a) the intent of the person delivering the language
(b) the way the language is received and perceived by the recipient
(c) the way the entire exchange is perceived by third parties who observe
it


-----------------------------------------

This is especially true where in the first instance the perpetrator has been asked directly to cease and desist yet stills persists with the unwelcome offensive behaviour.



http://www.sciforums.com/showthread.php?t=106695&page=19



After all, as you made sure we understood, just because others don't feel a term is insulting does not mean that someone else is not insulted by it. So pj feels it is insulting that buffalo makes constant reference to his mother when he has no need to.

Now issue here is whether you wish to continue with that same standard and apply it equally to all members? Or do we just tell everyone who feels insulted on this forum that they just need to grow a thicker skin regardless?


Do a search on his posts. BR uses "your mommy" argument quite a few times and each time it isn't received well because it is denigrating and it is insulting.

Here we have one member at least saying he's had enough and he wants it to stop. Should he have a right to make such a request like others made the request with certain terms in the past?


It's not the "grow up" that is the real issue here.

It is the mention of his mother and using it to denigrate and insult.

As in 'why haven't you moved out of home yet, blah blah blah, hiding behind your mother's skirt or in one post I found today, he mentioned about being under his mother's table in a way that could be construed as being insulting'.. Pj is currently living at home to help care for a sick parent. Something I know a lot of people who are doing exactly the same thing, including some in my own family.

At the end of the day, one could ask what pj's mother has to do when discussing US politics or the situation in the Israeli/Palestinian conflict and why she or anyone else's mother has to be mentioned at all...? I am still trying to figure that one out.

Pj feels insulted. BR mentioned his mother to be insulting and denigrating. We all know it and see it.

There's standard a), b) and c) fulfilled when it comes to insults.


And?

So what?

It only takes one person to be insulted, doesn't it?

Lol, goes to my last point!
 
Lol, touche! Hi James, pleased to make yours as well.

In my short time on this site I have gotten the impression that there are several posters that are simply whiners. Acting like children(tattle tales) for the smallest perceived slight, and many times these posters (you know who you are) are hijacking those threads w/ their personal vendettas,turning it into a pissing contest!

Personal attacks should never be allowed that is a given, but moderators(not sure who some of you are) cannot and should not allow these posters to either drag them into their personal feuds or have their own feuds w/ members even when members consistently egg them on.

Sounds like you. You come into this thread to attack instead of contribute. If you have no take on the issue, why are you here? You should probably excuse yourself from the conversation instead of pester people before you alienate yourself further.
 
You ae right Will my apologies! As you can tell I was called on it and I accepted the criticism as it was valid! Intellectual honesty is kinda freeing, dont you agree?
 
Thankfully we have no Sri Lankans on the forum who may have a general concern about being seen as being "sub human".

Straw context. I think this is actually a new one. Maybe? Could I copyright it? I suppose not.
 
You need to grow a thicker skin.
That applies to all of us.

Yes, we have a rule against personal insults, but in practice it's very hard to enforce. Most of our members are young Americans, and "trash talk" has become an art form over here. This is, after all, the birthplace of rap music! It's not always easy to discern whether something that looks like an insult was meant in jest--even if you're the recipient.

So when you come here, try to remember that in terms of social behavior, you're walking into a high school.
 
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A Note for WillNever

Your method is transparent. For instance, in #41 above, you complain, "And the answer still doesn't come." Yet one thing that stands out about your post is what it lacks. Of all the quotes in that post, what is absent is, in fact, what you're asking for:

Part of the problem I have answering your vagary in this case is that the context of my earlier remarks seems quite clear; it is part of an historical review. While Joe is certainly aware, through remarks both public and private, what I think of his approach to political argument, those points are actually irrelevant to the historical review. If you would like me to make them relevant, I would simply point out that Joe's method is a choice to play according to the most protected rules of Sciforums debate. Once it became clear that our deliberate decision to attempt an appearance of political balance meant lowering the bar for one side of the discussion, some, like Joe, chose to step down and play by that standard. Perhaps originally the point was that they would play nice when that became the way of things again, but it's been clear to me for a while, now, that playing nice isn't in the cards for the near term. That is, when our efforts to present an appearance of political balance resulted in the proposal to start banning people in order to protect Mr. Roam specifically, it was pretty clear to me that we had completely blown that pretense.

Joe has his own choices to make, and he will make them as he sees fit. But I didn't include him because he's symptomatic of the original problem, which was the number of exceptions we made for low-quality, even belligerent posts in part to bolster (or, at the very least, preserve) what we might describe as our "conservative" ranks.

(#37; italic text represents portion omitted from quotes)

Now, perhaps you disagree with my perspective, but you omit what constitutes the answer in order to complain that the answer never comes.

The whole thing is a house of cards you built, and anything that knocks it over is apparently unfair. Consider how this works. You wrote:

"So quote what is already on record. That's what we do any time somebody wants you to quote some evidence for a claim that you make in the science forums: pulling information or examples that are on documented and "on record" somewhere so that we can all view it. This is a hard concept for some, I recognize. BR isn't the only person to recycle talking points. So let's see posts by the people who berate BR also berating joepistole, pjudude, and others who act similarly. And let's hear why those people are excused and BR is being attacked for it."​

Or, to grant your request:

We might also recall in late 2009, a dispute between moderators led to an attempt to overhaul WE&P, including a mass lock of all threads before the overhaul date, an attempted zero tolerance policy, and so on. The catalyst for that episode was when one of our politically conservative moderators—elevated specifically, we might recall, as a quota appointment to provide the appearance of balance—went so far in his special protection of Mr. Roam as to propose someone be banned for trading insults. And when asked about Mr. Roam's conduct, be it anti-"Muslem", denigrating nicknames and abuse of people's monikers, and similar family-based attacks against members, the moderator's response was that he hadn't seen any of it taking place in his jurisdiction over time.

So what we're seeing here is a repeat of insulting conduct that we have, in fact, endorsed over time.

And you have endorsed that endorsement. Regardless of what you think of PJdude, or this particular episode—and it should be noted that while PJ indeed told Mr. Roam to grow up, he was able to do so without raising family considerations, and one might even go so far as to say he rightly told Mr. Roam to grow up—it only damages our credibility as site staff to promote the obviously untrue myth that "sciforums in no way condones personal insults".

In a broader context, I would also point out that this is part of what makes people upset with governing authorities in general. For many, it's not so much the rules themselves, or even the fact that said rules are enforced poorly and inconsistently, but, rather, the authority's arrogance in expecting that they can say such things and people should believe them despite evidence to the contrary.

One of the reasons people around here invest so much in this petty game of trading stupid insults is that we do, in fact, endorse it. Indeed, a primary effect of our desire to protect low-effort, anti-intellectual members like Mr. Roam is that many people don't see the need to continue to put any real academic effort into their posts. Go back and read through the exchange ("The Wisconsin Issue, #175-ff). Mr. Roam is just recycling talking points.

If in all his years, Mr. Roam had ever bothered to post an educated argument in good faith at Sciforums, we might be able to find something for his defenders to cling to. But our constant pandering to such low-effort, fact-free, anti-intellectual posting has done more to chill the exchange of ideas in this community than any reasonable suppression of bullshit ever would have.

Mr. Roam is a problem we could—and should—have handled years ago, yet for some reason—apparently, the appearance of political balance—we have condoned and endorsed his behavior to the point that many of the disciplinary actions against him have been begrudgingly given because other people have browbeaten the relevant moderators into dealing with him.

This doesn't mean that PJ, or anyone else, actually needs to shoot back, but what are people supposed to think when they see Mr. Roam's behavior so protected? The message we, as staff, send is that such behavior is not only acceptable, but worthy of active defense.

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This is the "attack" you allege against Mr. Roam. It is, as I advised you, and you apparently refused to consider, an historical review. Thus, to quote the record again, and answer your complaint about the "attack" against poor Mr. Roam:

Part of the problem I have answering your vagary in this case is that the context of my earlier remarks seems quite clear; it is part of an historical review. While Joe is certainly aware, through remarks both public and private, what I think of his approach to political argument, those points are actually irrelevant to the historical review. If you would like me to make them relevant, I would simply point out that Joe's method is a choice to play according to the most protected rules of Sciforums debate. Once it became clear that our deliberate decision to attempt an appearance of political balance meant lowering the bar for one side of the discussion, some, like Joe, chose to step down and play by that standard.

(Boldface accent indicates omitted portion that actually addresses the complaint)

It would be one thing to answer you if you could express your objections to such a perspective, but as long as you ignore such points while complaining that people are withholding them, there's not much anyone else can do to resolve your complaint.
 
That argument amounts to "someone else started it" and it cannot be substantiated.

The idea that joepistole and others had to lower their standards to match wit with conservatives has little evidence behind it and even in the worst situation, the best method of changing others' behavior is to act as a role model for them instead of to perpetuate the nastiness with excessive "LOLs."

It isn't my complaint, by the way. It is pjdudes. Avoid redirecting.
 
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WillNever said:

That argument amounts to "someone else started it" and it cannot be substantiated.

And that's fine. That was the whole point of certain moderators ignoring Mr. Roam's conduct over the course of years.

It's also kind of irrelevant to the assertion that someone attacked Mr. Roam. James is very much familiar with this assertion of history, as it has come up between moderators many times over the years.

The idea that joepistole and others had to lower their standards to match wit with conservatives has little evidence behind it and even in the worst situation, the best method of changing others' behavior is to act as a role model for them instead of to perpetuate the nastiness with excessive "LOLs."

I like your wording: "The idea that joepistole and others had to lower their standards to match wit with conservatives ...."

It's not a matter of lowering their standards to match wit. It's a matter of what the rules allow. Like I said, Joe's method is to play according to the most protected rules of Sciforums. That is, we've shepherded Mr. Roam's behavior for years, and it's quite clear to anyone who has been paying attention through the period.

There is actually much more going on here than the specific complaint in the topic post. For PJ, this is a situation that has been going on for years. Me, too; indeed, James' professed ignorance of Mr. Roam's conduct is baffling, given the number of times staff members have nearly come to blows over this issue.

At some point, we need to stop focusing solely on the effects, and start working on solutions for the causes of such troubles in our community.

It isn't my complaint, by the way. It is pjdudes. Avoid redirecting.

Which complaint is that?
 
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