I think you just don't like the idea of being evangelical.
But you're an anti-theistic, anti-religious atheist who gets in debates about evolution, and even dicusses it in threads about theists and atheists; you're an evangelical atheist.
And I've never understood how even a basic question of purpose becomes so confusing.
And compared to the last fifty years of history, that's some starry-eyed naïveté. And, sure, I get that you skipped over that part, but it is actually kind of important. Decades of typal "measured exchange and a calm presentation of facts" may have planted many seeds, but there is also a question of what actually grows.
To the other, if that part isn't really about others, but just about yourself and planting seeds, then, sure:
In all that time, attending the stations of archetype just doesn't seem to have worked, except, uh, maybe it just doesn't have anything to do with anything, or something: How can I say whether it worked if I don't know what it is for? And in that sense, like I said, I wouldn't necessarily tell you to not make the pitch.
Short form: If you appear to be doing it wrongly, that assessment could easily be irrelevant because it presumes you're trying to accomplish within a certain range of something; and, sure, within that range casting seeds about as such has failed to be effective, but it is not mine to assign your purpose.
Or, practically speaking, and to
reiterate↗:
I would have thought it had something to do with the reduction of religion or religious influence in society, but time and tide, and atheists, have disabused me of such presumptuous silliness.
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Let me try to illustrate:
Inasmuch as that is anything more than an easy and empty line, the fourth-wall note, here, would be to make two related points:
The fact that henotheism has traction in reliable scholarship―
―has little or no practical effect in the living question of religion being "bad for humanity".
―is an important clue to understanding altenatives for addressing religion that is "bad for humanity".
The thing is, I might criticize method, sometimes, according to questions of purpose, but there are other methods available;
insofar as↑ different pathways lead to different places, there is always the prospect having spent the last forty to fifty years
disputing over the wrong question↗,
i.e., traveling a road to nowhere.
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Also, it's important to note, your attemped language of mastery is a stylistic thing that doesn't really help,
e.g.,
You realize that's not helpful, right?
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Version 1↑: "My contact with these guys usually come via a debate or tutorial on Evolution. We will be discussing some points, interesting details and then a comment will pop up, 'Evolution is a lie.' When pressed the poster will make a few comments will demonstrate the fact that they do not know what the theory is."
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Version 2↑: "First, a Creationist exclaimed 'Evolution is a lie,' on an educational video."
Not only do those tellings seem to conflict with each other ("he will walk away a creationist", "my contact", "we will be disucssing", "the poster", compared to "exclaimed … on an educational video"), but, also, the latter version really does read like an affirmation of evangelism. Archetypal video characterizations promoted for the purpose of being seen in hopes of planting seeds: How do you not know that is evangelism?
And, really, did you
really think nobody would notice? It's the sort of thing that stands out to people who aren't new, when some alleged atheist goes telling the same sorts of stories I can hear from old men of faith. It sounds just like Christian evangelists describing typal caricatures in order to firm up their evangelism and pretend against uncertainty. Or, to the other, maybe you're just so accustomed to these ritual performances you don't notice.
And in that sense, again, like I said, I wouldn't necessarily tell you to not make the pitch. It's just that when you get to the part about planting seeds, it's worth recalling history and asking what germinates. Or did you never stop to think about that part?
In your imagination, all these seeds you cast about: When they germinate and take root ("perhaps just a small one but it will be there",
#499↗), do you presume what you have planted will be fruitful? Inasmuch as the second objective is "to try and [
get] that person to think", do you presume they are thinking whatever it is you want them to ("there will be a doubt there", "a nagging question about the Bible")?
So, here we come back to a question: If an atheist seeks a result from such discussion, what result do they seek? And, are they sure about that? That is to say, there is the question of whether you think this road will get you there; in all that time, attending the stations of archetype just doesn't seem to have worked.
Y'know. Time. Tide. Christian nationalists. Look around.