The Female Mind... some questions are better left off unknown

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why is it when i talk with my chick friends they always talk about their boyfriends too me... exspecialy the ones that i wish to "expand my relationship" with?
whats the deal yo?
 
Canadian, I have many female friends, here's my bit of advice. First off, all friendships irrespective of the gender involved should be approached with honesty, you must be genuine. This becomes even more pertinent when the friendship involves a girl. You must enter into the friendship with no ulterior motives, or expectations. If you want to "be friends" with a girl simply in the vain hope that you might weasel your way into her panties, then it won't work, you'll come out of it looking like a wanker.
 
Women, you can't live with them and you can't live without them. They are a paradox aren't they?
 
Originally posted by Wraith
Canadian, I have many female friends, here's my bit of advice. First off, all friendships irrespective of the gender involved should be approached with honesty, you must be genuine. This becomes even more pertinent when the friendship involves a girl. You must enter into the friendship with no ulterior motives, or expectations. If you want to "be friends" with a girl simply in the vain hope that you might weasel your way into her panties, then it won't work, you'll come out of it looking like a wanker.
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that dont help me one bit
doesnt answere my question a single bit
:confused:
 
OK sparky, let me cut to the chase:
You fancy this girl, and you want to play hide the salami with her, but she has a guy.

hows that?
 
uhuh, i think i said that already
that STILL doesnt answere my main question you you... you jiblet you!

:)
 
I really don't even see what your problem is.
You want to shtup a girl, she has a boyfriend, she doesn't want to fuck you.

I mean, I can see why that sucks - but what's confusing about it?
 
let me clearify my question


"why do girls always talk to me about their boyfriends?"!

are they trying to tell me secretly something?
is it a defense mechanism?
or are they just simply trying to make conversation?
 
Originally posted by A Canadian
why is it when i talk with my chick friends they always talk about their boyfriends too me... exspecialy the ones that i wish to "expand my relationship" with?
whats the deal yo?
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Welcome to the world of opposite sex relationships. You know why they talk to you about their boyfriends??? because you're pretending to be their endearing friend...one who cares of their trivial ramblings....juts be true to yourself and them and simply state you're looking to start a relationship with them..or a good loud hard fuck every now and then.

Women aren't stupid....Chances are your female friends are a lot smarter than you and know of your intentions but they cleverly have reeled in a a listening ear. Now grab your balls and admit your desires and have fun.
 
"why do girls always talk to me about their boyfriends?"!
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It's not just you, girls will talk to all and sundry about their boyfriends.
Like I said, don't go into the friendship with any expectations, just be a good friend.
 
reproducelings

looking deeper at the fundamental living principle, earthlings are intending to reproduction and evolution. to ensure that, man needs as many women as he can whereas woman needs 'only-one' top quality of all, so it is very usual that a woman wants no close relationship other than with her boyfriend/husband

les wait for female opinions
 
How can you tell that God isn't a woman?

If he was then semen would taste like chocolate.
 
Originally posted by A Canadian
let me clearify my question


"why do girls always talk to me about their boyfriends?"!

are they trying to tell me secretly something?
is it a defense mechanism?
or are they just simply trying to make conversation?
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Because she see you as a friend. I think it's pretty much too late to get anywhere with her, even in the future when/if she doesn't have a bf. She's already typecast you as "The Friend" so there will be no such spark as to ignite a relationship.

If she was even somewhat interested she wouldn't talk about her bf to you, another guy. Just my opinion.
 
I think I understand your problem, Canadian. I used to have the very same one when I was in your age. I was looking for "relationship" - "real one". So I was always all ears, full of understanding etc. The result? Lots of girl - friends but no girlfriend. So I learned that this "round-about" way does not work at all. Girls like action (see the Xev's post in one of those SuperMario threads). If you like some girl, go straight to her and make yourself clear (you need not to use exactly those words suggested by Xev, of course ;) . Usually you do not need to talk much, actually. If the girl is interested, she will understand immediately and she will be responsive. Remember - it is always a girl who makes her choice, not guy!

Also - every girl I know is quite a lot occupied by her looks. So they like to hear how beautiful they are etc. The problem is that not every guy knows how to say such things without looking stupid. I was never able of this talk. So I used some little "dirty tricks" that never failed - never! Take my word for it. Here they are (I do not need them any more, so I can share them):

1. Photographing - tell her she very photogenic so you want to make some photos of her. (works, but I did not like this one very much - too ordinary).
2. Body-painting - my favorite which works like miracle. I discovered this by pure chance. I met a girl and invited her to drink without any "side" intentions. The only thing I wanted at that moment was a glass of good whisky and somebody to talk with while drinking it. So we drank and talked, having really good time together. Then I mentioned that I am painter, to which she did not pay much attention. Then I said that I would like to try body-painting someday. Now her entire behavior changed abruptly. She asked many questions about it and it was evident that she was thinking about something. Than it came out of sudden "Do you want to try it with me?" She asked me! So we went to my studio and...
3. Massage - if she starts complaining about headache, sore back etc. offer a massage to her (this is especially "dirty trick" because EVERY massage can be highly erotic, if you know how to do that - it is well known fact that women have erotogenous zones almost everywhere ;) ).

Well, I am a photographer and painter and I really know how to do a massage (I attended a course), but I do not think that was ever of any importance. The main thing while playing "dirty tricks" like these is that you must play them lightly, with good humor. It must be a game she is invited to join - not a trap. Then you can have lot of fun - both of you!;)
 
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yeaaaahhh
i asked a simple question yet all of a sudden im getting "dirty tricks"
how the fuck did that happen eh?
 
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