the danger of being too social can get you killed because people are untrustworthy and you can only trust them as far as you superficially know them. how fake society is. how you never really know anyone. or in most cases, people just believe the superficial as real never really knowing who the person is making friendships based on superficial reasons. what's telling is these girls were never really her friend yet she called them her best friends and for frivolous reasons which is common and not at all surprising they would backstab her in a heartbeat.
the bottomline is something, ain't it? can't trust in a universe where the bottomline is so dangerous. listen to what dr phil has to say at the end about how one's mind usually just can't foresee such evil or would predict because some people just cannot conceive that there is evil or people capable of such evil or to such depths of depravity.
but on a science forum, it's really not indicating that as so much about these particular players in this scenario which are the people involved so much as how evil the bottomline of the laws of nature is and that is technically what their blindspot was and that is the false sense of trust in abstract boundaries, ironically, forgetting where the bottomline really is objectively very evil.
that's terrible, isn't it? that you have to be so aware and suspicious of the worst possible which is the unthinkable but the unthinkable is very much possible and a reality in this universe.
and each negative experience, teaches you another contemptible lesson in being aware of just how low (not high or better) the laws of nature operates and to aware of it for future reference and file that knowledge away and to be on guard because it may happen again. ironically, your wisdom is honed more by the awareness of what is shit or unworthy than what is worthy because what is good is not the priority and inconsequential if you have to be looking out for shit out to get you, so that has to be the first order of business always. this is a fuking shit universe and i don't even think it's an opinion but a realistic and fair evaluation.
this is a brutal and evil universe. there is just no way to mince those facts. even looking back at the process of evolution is a testament to how insanely brutal this universe is. all fangs and claws, literally. the nightmare is real after all.
the evidence is just all around us, even to the point of redundancy in newsclips, we become desensitized.. how you know this is a objective fact is in reality they were capable of killing and they did and it's permanent and even if they put them away for life, it still doesn't reverse or change the fact of their loss. that's just how much blatant power evil has in this universe due to it being located literally at a foundational level of it's structure. you are in it's lair not just figuratively but literally too.
it starts like this: you come into this universe like an amnesia or abductee victim with no choice , paradoxically innocent and then the universe shows you how bad it is and then you know you have to be wary. there is step one.
then the universe reveals it's capable of being worse than bad, and then you just know something is definitely not right and start to question where in all sanity do you reside. this is an indication where religion, philosophy etc stems from to cope. scientists do it too in their own way by gaining knowledge and thereby trying to steer destiny as best as possible.
then with enough life experience, the universe shows you how abjectly, atrociously, monstrously, hideously and unthinkably evil it can be. at this point, what the fuk is there to really respect? respect out of fear and survival definitely, but true respect is out of the question. this universe is shit.