Sexual Desire male/female

Yorda said:
society is just a word that means "other women (and men)". so when you say that the love drive is more socially acceptable it just means that it's more acceptable by women.

if a woman sleeps around a lot it means that she behaves like a man, and that is not acceptable by many women. same with guys: if a man behaves feminine (for example if he's a virgin, if he doesn't get any sex), he's looked down upon by other men.

men don't get called sluts because that word would be ineffective against a man. it would be like saying: you're a man. it's more like a compliment. men have their own bad words, which only work against other men.
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Ya, but who decided it was 'feminine' to be a virgin and not get any, and the other way around for men? And what makes anyone feel it is ok??
 
So no on thinks men are cool when they fuck left right and centre, but women are sluts if they get laid too much? Yay! Hey people, I fucked 10 guys last night, aren't I cool?
 
visceral_instinct said:
So no on thinks men are cool when they fuck left right and centre, but women are sluts if they get laid too much? Yay! Hey people, I fucked 10 guys last night, aren't I cool?
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Some think it is cool, some do not...it all matters with whom you associate it, to decide that their views of you are the "society".
 
visceral_instinct said:
Ya, but who decided it was 'feminine' to be a virgin and not get any, and the other way around for men?
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men and women "decided" it (unconsciously) of course, who else? god? the important question is why did they decide what they decided? and the answer is in the differences of their physical bodies. the physical differences create mental equivalents of those differences.

how detailed do i have to get?: men have a "hard" body. the hardness is reflected in their personality. we know that many men try to be "hard" which equals tough. and girls have a soft body, so their pesronality is soft (sensitive)

visceral_instinct said:
Yay! Hey people, I fucked 10 guys last night, aren't I cool?
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yes, you're cool! no but... the reason that it's not cool for a girl because it's so easy for a girl to get 10 guys. but for a guy it's hard to get 10 girls, because girls are so careful (feminine), that's why it would be impressive/cool accomplishment for a guy.
 
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Yorda said:
men and women decided it of course, who else? god? the important question is why did they decide what they decided? and the answer is in the differences of their physical bodies. the physical differences create mental equivalents of those differences.
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I thought god was everything according to you ? Then, God DID decide upon it.
It's just men that decided it though.. men liked to oppress women, still even..

Yorda said:
how detailed do i have to get?: men have "hard" body. the hardness is reflected in their personality. we know that many men try to be "hard" which equals tough. and girls have a soft body, so their pesronality is soft (sensitive)
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You're not..
 
how detailed do i have to get?: men have a "hard" body. the hardness is reflected in their personality. we know that many men try to be "hard" which equals tough. and girls have a soft body, so their pesronality is soft (sensitive)
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That's symbolism, not reality. That's like saying my eyes are dark, so I should be associated with death, or something similar.

What if a girl has a hard, wiry body? What does that make her?
 
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