Sexual Desire male/female

Chatha said:
very simple prove, go outside and ask the first girl you see if she wants to have sex, she's going to probably say no. But for guys you don't even need to go outside, wake him up from bed while sleeping and ask him to have sex and he will probably say yes if she is hot. Women enjoy sex just as much as men but they are more reserved and "classy" about it, again another result of sociological norm; no woman wants to be a slut and all women think their current relationship should be the best ever.
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I would disagree with you there...

I desire sex but I would not agree to having sex just with some girl who would come up to me and ask for it.
 
But more than likely you would be more inclined than a woman would. The other point is that physical attributes doesn't turn women on like it turns men on, women are turned on by a number of things while men are turned on mostly by ....dare I say...large breasts.
 
Chatha said:
But more than likely you would be more inclined than a woman would. The other point is that physical attributes doesn't turn women on like it turns men on, women are turned on by a number of things while men are turned on mostly by ....dare I say...large breasts.
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ummm...the butt does it for me, actually.

But please Chatha...tell me what are women turned on by.
 
ElectricFetus said:
it funny watching a butch of men postulate on how women think.
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yep

Men pay for sex cuz women don't have to. A women thinks of sex, she gets laid. A men thinks of sex, he goes begging. Women use sex as a bargaining chip the same way men use money. Women never used to have their own money, so they used what men wanted. :shrug: And if you ran the risk of getting pregnant you would be more wary of sex.

Oh, and if most men were better in bed, women would be a LOT more eager for sex.
 
madanthonywayne said:
It's true there are some strip clubs with male strippers, but not many. My home town, for instance, has like 14 strip clubs (maybe more) and not a single one with male strippers.
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I don't think that women aren't really interested in looking at male strippers. I think that maybe a lot of women find it sort or trashy, or unlady like. I went to one a few yrs ago, neitzsche took me for a joke. The place was packed! The women were going NUTS! Then they started doing these private dances in the booths behind us, and the women had no problem paying for them. I still have no idea how much it cost. One stripper came over to me and asked if I had a pen. I beleive he was getting some chicks phone #. When he gave me back the pen he kinda put his arm around me and grabbed my butt :eek:

The was the first and last time I went. I have no desire to head back there, but I can see how a group of women out for the night could have a blast there.
 
madanthonywayne said:
Hey, I've been pounced on. My first real date was with an "older woman".


But generally it's the man who must initiate things.
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You DOG! :p I seem to end to get younger men myself. Anyway in my case my sexual drive has always been less then my partners. It seems men have sex on the brain 24/7, and I just don't have the time and energy for that.

I think you are right too, I think that men iniatiate sex more.
 
Chatha said:
But more than likely you would be more inclined than a woman would. The other point is that physical attributes doesn't turn women on like it turns men on, women are turned on by a number of things while men are turned on mostly by ....dare I say...large breasts.
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I would have to agree there......about the large breasts.
But physical appearance of men doesn't turn women on like men? I
have to disagree with you there. So a woman isn't turned on by a man
with a really nice chest?
 
draqon concidering you have admited to being a virgin you should REALLY stay out of threads like this. Your opinions make you sound like an IDIOT.

Seeing as how half of PB and my fights involve the fact that "i dont find her atractive" because i never want to have sex the language may be different but the desire is no different.
 
Asguard said:
draqon concidering you have admited to being a virgin you should REALLY stay out of threads like this. Your opinions make you sound like an IDIOT.

Seeing as how half of PB and my fights involve the fact that "i dont find her atractive" because i never want to have sex the language may be different but the desire is no different.
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You never want to have sex with your g/f? and you are a young guy. What's the problem?
 
Shorty a combination of two things

naturally low sex drive and depression. Also the anti depressants lower it further so we tend to have sex around once or twice a month unfortunatly:(
 
Asguard said:
Shorty a combination of two things

naturally low sex drive and depression. Also the anti depressants lower it further so we tend to have sex around once or twice a month unfortunatly:(
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GAK! :eek: That's it!? Have you tried other meds?
 
unfortuantly the other ones i have tried left me suicidle:p and basically unable to funtion at all

It really pisses me off but thats life
 
Asguard said:
Shorty a combination of two things

naturally low sex drive and depression. Also the anti depressants lower it further so we tend to have sex around once or twice a month unfortunatly:(
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So she takes your low sex drive personally and thinks you don't find her attractive and that is why you don't want to have sex with her.

I can see that happening.
 
Asguard said:
unfortuantly the other ones i have tried left me suicidle:p and basically unable to funtion at all

It really pisses me off but thats life
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Ok, you may not be in the mood, but can you still...well, can you still get an erection? I've had sex while not being in the mood for it. Once you start, you get in the mood quick. ;)
 
yes its mood related rather than sexual dysfuntion:p

And yes i have herd the argument that viagra works on low sex drive for men because its so visable:p

Yes PB can sometimes get me into "the mood" but she tends to get frustrated because she has to make the effort, and i do tend to get irrated if im doing something else and she wants sex

Ah well, lifes great isnt it:p
 
well, when you love someone, you have to make an effort. Its give and take. Easy as that.
I'm not familiar with a guy being too busy for sex though. Is that normal???
;)
 
Depends on your conditioning, I think. I've seen some very sexually aggressive women in the Arabs for example, they can really make the guys sweat. Most women are not obsessed with sex because they can get it more easily when they want it.
 
orelander, imagin you have a lower sex drive. Now in that condition would you sit around waiting for your partner to turn you on all the time or would you be doing other things?:p
 
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