MetaKron im still waiting for your responce to that post
Well, wait long enough for me to get out of bed and get some breakfast in me. It's Saturday here and I'm not in a hurry. I'm usually catching up on sleep this time on a Saturday. And you posted your "I'm waiting" five minutes after Tiassa's post, at a time when I was headed for bed.
Now, I have to ask the question: Is Tiassa going to disbelieve the testimony of people who say that they had a good time having sex when they were underage and believe the testimony of people who said that it was horrible and that they will never get over it? What about Bells? Was the lady in one of her examples under the impression that she was doing fine until someone got to her and "straightened her out"?
When one denies the possibility that sex might be good for someone of a particular age, that relieves one of the responsibility to prove the charges that they want to bring against someone who has "offended." That's arrogant. Even a pedophile has a certain innate right to refuse to deal with arrogant people. Any human will experience dissonance when being exposed to attempts by other humans to correct his behavior using arrogance, irrational and wrong statements, and violence, even when he is wrong. A person might just say "You can't prove me wrong." This is probably true. If you don't have evidence that a reasonable person can respect within a framework that a reasonable person can work with, you can't prove your point. The current system consistently trashes itself.
In my opinion it would be far more effective to have some kind of normalized path towards adult sexuality. No such path exists when every sexual contact with anyone who is under the age of 18 is said to be pathological, and at that, most sexual contacts between adults are said to be pathological, depending on who you ask. The anti-pedophiles attacked so-called normal sexuality early on, and this was after barely a pause in the attacks that were more an accepted part of life in the 1950s. All that they really did was switch excuses and use the children as pawns in this war against sexuality. Such a corrupt system creates sexual frustration that leads to rape. When a man can at least masturbate he won't be nearly as likely to diddle the housecat.
These days they've persuaded us to feel contempt for a man who feels sexual frustration, or is being driven crazy by the attacks against him for being a man, or who lets on that he even feels the pressure against him. And where is the credit for being even halfway normal? Where do we celebrate having a normal mind, a normal interest in sex, and so on? Ridicule, slapstick, and depictions of endless conflict don't cut it.