This is a public poll... especially for mods an administraters but all are welcome to partisipate.!!!
There are certainly cases where we need to moderate people who actually don't deserve respect. Consider your average spammer, for example. Or the 20th sock puppet of a permanently-banned member.
I've said it before and I've said it again: respect must be earned.
Don't confuse being given respect with being treated with decency and good manners. Lack of respect for somebody is no excuse for rudeness towards them.
I'm not a believer in respect being a default position. I don't owe you my respect just because you happen to be a person.
You're getting off-track, clueless. What should be at issue here is whether moderators should provoke members when they moderate them. Like being snide in their mod notes, or insulting them.
I'm not a believer in respect being a default position. I don't owe you my respect just because you happen to be a person.
You're getting off-track, clueless. What should be at issue here is whether moderators should provoke members when they moderate them. Like being snide in their mod notes, or insulting them.
Perhaps not... but you should so moderators respect for their position much the same as you would show a police officer or paramedic respect; not because they have "earned it", but because it is an implied position of authority and that authority commands respect. You don't have to respect them as a person until such respect is earned, but generally telling a police officer to "fuck off" and taking a swing at em won't end well.
shoud moderators "provoke members when they moderate them. Like being snide in their mod notes, or insulting them."
If the work of moderators would be limited to dealing with commercial spam, there wouldn't be a problem.
But they instead propose themselves to be moral and cognitive authorities. In some cases, this means that someone on the moral and cognitive level of a teenager gets to make moral judgments about someone on the moral and cognitive level of an adult, and the adult has to comply with the judgment of the teenager, simply because that's how the forum works.
What we have here is Kohlberg's theory of moral development turned on its head: people in a lesser stage effectively hold authority over those in a higher stage.
We get a moderator that is in stage 3, but because he or she is a moderator, his or her word prevails even over that of a poster in stage 5 or 6, and so the moral reasoning of stage 3 is effectively held in higher esteem than moral reasoning of stage 5 or 6.
I know that I've been known to make snide remarks myself from time to time. It can be hard to resist when you're confronted with blatant stupidity, intentional disruptiveness, and offensive interpersonal conduct.
Originally Posted by cluelusshusbund
shoud moderators "provoke members when they moderate them. Like being snide in their mod notes, or insulting them."
"Ideally, no, but moderators are only human. I know that I've been known to make snide remarks myself from time to time. It can be hard to resist..."
No. One of the implications of Kohlberg's theory is that people on one stage of moral development are unable to understand reasoning from a higher stage, and mere evidence and debate usually cannot change this.I wouldn't necessarily say that is true though Wynn... yes, our "word" prevails, but our word can be swayed given evidence and respectful debate.
Kohlberg's theory has no such flaw, since it is a theory of the development of moral reasoning, and a factor for this development is precisely interactions with others. But according to this theory, the development of moral reasoning is actually much slower and requires much more than many people think.However, I would say that Kohlberg's theory has one significant flaw; no individual IS a separate entity from society; this is because a society is made up of individuals, and should (in theory) change, adapt, and grow with them.
Whom are you agreeing with?I do agree however that rules are meant to be, again, adaptable and flexible.
Sure.This forum is a place where you come by choice; nobody is making you come here. Much the same, the rules herein are something you agree to by choice, with the understanding that failure to comply with said rules will result in punishment and/or expulsion.
If Kohlberg's theory is anything to go by, then such change is not possible within the foreseeable time.Is this the case here? That could be argued... and I would probably be inclined to say, as much as I abhor the thought, that it does occur. The issue now... is how do we fix it. Simply removing and electing new moderators will not change that... it will fix it for the short term, but in a few years we will be right back where we started, though with new faces, new rules, and potentially new issues.
So... let us, as a community, find ways to fix the ISSUE, instead of treating the SYMPTOM.
Technologically, is that possible?In that case, we wouldn't have moderators. We'd just install a better automatic spam filter and be done with it.
Nonsense.Let me guess. You put yourself at stage 6, and most or all of the moderators at a "lower" level. Therefore, you argue, you ought to be given free reign, because you're on a higher moral plane than the rest of us.
As such, punitive punishment is getting us nowhere... we need to work on rectifying the SOURCE of the issue (povery, desire for power/wealth, poor upbringing, etc) before we can expect the SYMPTOMS (crime, drugs, gangs, etc) to get better.
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So... let us, as a community, find ways to fix the ISSUE, instead of treating the SYMPTOM.
What do you think is the source of the discord at Sciforums?As such, punitive punishment is getting us nowhere... we need to work on rectifying the SOURCE of the issue (povery, desire for power/wealth, poor upbringing, etc) before we can expect the SYMPTOMS (crime, drugs, gangs, etc) to get better.
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So... let us, as a community, find ways to fix the ISSUE, instead of treating the SYMPTOM.
You don't have to respect them as a person until such respect is earned, but generally telling a police officer to "fuck off" and taking a swing at em won't end well.
Agreed. However if a cop gets in your face and says "fuck you! fuck you! fuck everyone you know!" and you reply "you too" that's pretty defensible. It may not end well for you but it won't end well for the cop, either. Here it would get you banned and get you a lecture on how to respect the mods.