I'm only speaking for myself, but I'm sure a few others would feel the same. For me the forums is the second port of call after reading my email. As I see it, and from what I understand, this is Dave's own project, he's been financing it and running it for a long time now, and those of us who come here are enjoying the privilege of communicating with people from other countries and cultures, exchanging ideas and making friends - all at no cost to us. I don't know how he does it, and I don't know how much it costs to run, but I'm grateful that he is. I know he's been thanked many times for doing this, but that does not give anyone the right to criticize or dictate how things should be run. If Fen was a religious person and donated to the church, or even if he donates to charity, it does not give him the right to become part of the administration.
When I see someone being critical of anything to do with the forums it has the same effect of watching someone who's just been given a gift say to the giver "this isn't good enough" - you can't help but think 'what an ungrateful bastard'. Thats how I feel and that's why I'll speak up when Dave is attacked for the way the forums are run.
Just my opinion.
Thanks
Teri