Less sex please, we're geeks!
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OMG, don't tell Nietzsche, or any of the other women on here I've been accused of flirting with.Yes I have read the thread Oli. It's a flirt fest between you and shorty
Ho hum.
You're new so I'll allow that.
I don't lie.
Never found the need to.
Yes I have read the thread Oli. It's a flirt fest between you and shorty
Men (geeks or otherwise) don't find intelligent women attractive although they might say they do.
While I don't give a rat's ass about a woman's intelligence if it were just a fling, if I'm going to date her, then yes, she better be fairly intelligent; intelligent enough to hold a conversation.
Yes I have read the thread Oli. It's a flirt fest between you and shorty
Men (geeks or otherwise) don't find intelligent women attractive although they might say they do.
Uh oh..shame on me...and here I thought it was just an endless amount of repeating
the same old thing because John wasn't catching the grasp of it very well.
Missed it originally, so a late reply:Very true, Oli don't you find these women too easy if they sleep with you after a few hours? In the beginning the challenge makes it all that much more fun
Depends on the woman.
(And like I said, it's a very different culture over here - I've been accused of being gay simply because I didn't try to get a woman into bed after two minutes' of conversation
).If she engages me intellectually and she obviously feels the same way about me then who's easy?
Her?
Me?
Both?
Or are we both adult and know what we're doing?
There's a difference between (as I've mentioned before) meeting someone and getting "Are you coming home with me for a f*ck?" in the first two seconds and getting to know someone over three hours of intense talking and flirting. (IMO).
The challenge is in the intellectual foreplay.
I didn't mean challenge as in "talking someone into bed that doesn't/ didn't want to in the first place" - never done that, never would.
Been here longer than you have geek!
Rats, so you have.
I looked at your post count, rather than sign up date.
Apologies.
You can borrow some of my books.
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So you should have known better!
John J. Bannan
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Oli: What practical use is a mind fuck?
OMg can you please let it go already........I don't think he
can even explain it anymore:bugeye:
John J. Bannan
Registered Senior Member
I'm not asking for explanation. I'm asking for value. Two different questions.
Of what practical use is ANY fuck, other than one that leads to child birth?
Nope, you asked for practical use.
I stated that I (personally, that's me, not advocating it for anyone else) PREFER a mindfuck.
How about I put it this way:
If you live somewhere where you can get a burger any time of day, any day of the week without effort and you knew there was steak au poivre available which would you PREFER?
What can I say?
I'm discriminatory, I'm choosy, I have standards for myself.
I've never slept with a woman "just because I could" or "just because she offered", or "just because she/ I had too much to drink".
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John J. Bannan
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O.K. Then it's just pleasure.
You're lucky - American women, by and large, are stupid, pudgy, prudish little girls who are more concerned about playing hard to get and making him work for it than they are about having a good time.
Not that American men are any better - spoiled, entitled, prudish, confused and contradictory little boys who can't engage or respect a woman.
NIce and smart is enough, even if there's no conflict. Nice and smart is good. And hot. Of course.
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John J. Bannan
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A mind fuck is just a fancy French fuck. So what? There are experiences in life far better than that.
You have no idea.
"Just pleasure"
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No and hell no.John J. Bannan said:
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No, it's not f*cking with your mind.
But I think you know that.
Damn few of those over here.
Quite a shock after being married 20 years and going out on a weekend.
Strange, we those over here as well.
And rare