Ralf;
Your reply was surprisingly pleasant. (Wondering, maybe he hired a publicity agent.)
Long long ago, in school, I noticed math wasn't the most popular subject, and those who studied it, did so with varying degrees of difficulty. It wasn't that they couldn't understand it. The school system expected everyone to graduate yearly in a one size fits all plan.
I think you are one of those people who enter the theater in the middle of the movie. Unaware of what has transpired, you can't connect the current events with those that have already occurred. You seemed to have learned bits and pieces from random sources without an integrated program of learning.
Or, you could be one of the self taught musicians, who know the essentials of music and your instrument, but can't read music. You can only play songs you know, whereas those with formal training can play songs they don't know.
Math is standardized, so you have to know its definitions. A little history.
Prior to the 1600's, light propagation was thought to be instantaneous, which implies a universal time. If you saw a star grow brighter, it was happening while you watched.
At that time, if a scientist had a laser-like device and sent a beam to the moon, it would look like the 1st graph. Signal sent at 1 sec. and return at 3.5 sec. He would obviously wonder, why the 2.5 sec. delay. One explanation might be, the light interacts with matter before it returns. As more experiments were done with objects at greater distances, someone would detect a pattern where the delay increased with increasing distance. Delay in light transit time is what actually occurred in astronomical observations. Refer Ole Romer, 1670. Even if this new discovery was included in the graph, it would still look the same.
The problem is scale. The unit of time is 1 second, with the unit of space 3(10)^8 meters. Enter Minkowski, and as a mathematician, he seeks to generalize. If t is multiplied by c, then ct can be treated (mathematically) as a 4th dimension, just another line on paper. This scaling factor simplifies SR in calculations, and enables sensible graphical comparisons in the near light speed range. The horizontal x axis is now object motion vt, and the vertical ct axis is light motion, as in the 2nd graph. The ct axis U, is standard as the reference frame. The 'time/world line' of an object has a slope of vt/ct = v/c, a speed profile. Thus light has a slope of 1 or 45 deg.
In the example, B has a speed of .6 relative to U. The red calibration curve (Max Born) is typically used to indicate time dilation, .8 in this case.
If you know algebra, then 1/gamma = sqrt(1-a^2), with a = v/c. 1/gamma also equals the circular arc from ct = 10 to ct = 8. If you have a drawing app, you can copy and paste the red curve in as needed, but it's much simpler to draw an arc. Then the gray line between the ends of the red curve can substituted for the curve to transfer any B-time to the U-time scale, eliminating all those tick marks. As you see, there are practical shortcuts available, especially when there are only two frames involved.
My personal preferences are blue for light, light gray for measurements and construction lines, and other colors as needed. Strive for simplicity. Any measurement requires a round trip light signal (blue). I don't use a grid since the CAD system makes measurements to great precision, and only a few are necessary.
In the example,
U assigns coordinates (6, 10) to B.
U can transform his coordinates via the LT, to those of B as (0,8).
The spacetime graphic is a geometric application of the LT.
B perceives he is at (4.8, 8) relative to U.
His perception is what he thinks/concludes after a complete analysis of images, calculations, etc.
