a lot of it seems to be in line with what soluscado wrote - namely that we find a person to convince ourselves of a set of values we want to incorporate ... moreso than trying to engineer a state of being where we just mindlessly surrender to a given personality.The jaundice reference is to mean:
A person is disqualified (ie. jaundiced) from the onset; a person is from the onset denied any ability to make the right choice.
Still, a person is then requested to make a choice, even though they are not thought to have the qualification.
A person is expected to believe that they cannot do it, and then they are supposed to do it.
How does this make sense?
It is like when a teacher tells a student:
"You are stupid, you cannot read. Now read this paragraph."
If the student is to read, he has to go against the first statement made by the teacher. And if he does read, the teacher can say "You are stupid, you cannot read."
If a person actually believed they are jaundiced, they would eat anything that would be distasteful, thinking that it could be sugar, and they are supposed to eat sugar.
But if you believe you are jaundiced, you cannot consider any of that, at least not with any sense of sanity or conviction.
How do you avoid the conclusion "He is a good teacher. It is just that I am so materially conditioned that I don't see it. So even though I do not like him and do not feel inspired by him, I should take shelter of him anyway." -?
IOW if one is so disqualified (or jaundiced) as to not comprehend the need for encompassing a set of values that spiritual life involve, the question never arises. Therefore it is commonly regarded that the first instance of god's mercy is to have the nous to see the inherent problems of material life ... and the apex of hellish existence is to be lodged in a sense of comfort with it (that's why taking birth as an animal is given a bad rap ... and why they turn up in analogies for gross materialists - ie a donkey that gets kicked in the face in the pursuit of sex life, a camel that regards cactus as a delicacy when they are actually relishing the taste of their own blood, a cow that chews on sugar cane that has gone through the juicer a dozen times already, the ass that carries a mammoth load for a mere handful of grass from the owner which can be acquired on the side of a road anywhere, etc etc)