Ok. He is a normal, chatty guy. Everything else is cool in his life- work, his family etc. No probs with anything, that I know off.
I am suspicious, because
1) His ex has recently got in touch & she is known to be a man eater & flirt.
2)He has suddenly got very guarded about his phone
3) He changed his email password very quickly after telling me it
4) He never checks his email at home any more
5)General slightly 'odd' behaviour that I cant put my finger on, but I know & just feel something is amiss
If I find out and he is cheating then Ill dump him
I dont think that the predominant feeling of ending a 6 year relationship and throwing away my wedding and future, will be one of 'vindication'![]()
Ok. He is a normal, chatty guy. Everything else is cool in his life- work, his family etc. No probs with anything, that I know off.
I am suspicious, because
1) His ex has recently got in touch & she is known to be a man eater & flirt.
2)He has suddenly got very guarded about his phone
3) He changed his email password very quickly after telling me it
4) He never checks his email at home any more
5)General slightly 'odd' behaviour that I cant put my finger on, but I know & just feel something is amiss
In that case, do it legally.
Slap him a legal notice of alienation of affection; make him prove he's still attached to you.
Alienation is recognized in Hawaii, Illinois, North Carolina, Mississippi, New Mexico, South Dakota, and Utah.
Yeah because you all never get into marriages that fail, or start dating an abusive boyfriend because your 'intuition' tells you not to.I have always found a womans intuition to be quite good!
comon get in the 21st century. He's a fukin moron for getting married in the first place.
I could tell you how to crack his password(esp on Outlook), but this IF/THEN statement solves ALL your issues:
IF he's rich THEN Marry
IF he cheats THEN divorcetakehalfhisshitELSE Dump his ass now
ELSE Carry on in wedded "bliss"
Yeah because you all never get into marriages that fail, or start dating an abusive boyfriend because your 'intuition' tells you not to.
You can usually find woman's intuition hanging out with Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny.
Sorry, but I'm going to have to raise the bullshit flag on that one.
Im not sure what the 'alienation' thing is but Im in the UK so it is prob not applicable
Look I just want to know for myself before the wedding
I will find his email password somehow, even if I have to instal a remote keylogger
I just wanted some advice or a point in the right direction so I can get it done properly
If he isnt cheating then Ill be so happy, it will be such a weight off my mind
I know checking up is bad, and an invasion of privacy but I feel its my only option now and as I said Id rather know now so I can prevent an even bigger mess than if I find out something when we are actually married
Im not sure what the 'alienation' thing is but Im in the UK so it is prob not applicable
Look I just want to know for myself before the wedding
I will find his email password somehow, even if I have to instal a remote keylogger
I just wanted some advice or a point in the right direction so I can get it done properly
If he isnt cheating then Ill be so happy, it will be such a weight off my mind
I know checking up is bad, and an invasion of privacy but I feel its my only option now and as I said Id rather know now so I can prevent an even bigger mess than if I find out something when we are actually married
email cracking is stupid, just hire a private detective.
Will you look into his eyes and smile while you are plotting to break into his email account? :crazy:
Also what happens if he has been cheating and you find out he's BISEXUAL?
I admire you for admitting that. However, there are probably millions of other examples someone's intuition misleading them.Actually my intuition had nothing to do with that. I knew he was a bit of a prick. It was my young stupid self that thought I could change him. I have learned otherwise since. My intuition is usually correct....when I really feel strongly about something.