"Real" in physics gets complicated real quick. We could have a whole thread about what you mean by things like, real/realism.
etc.
No one ever listens to me lol, so I brought some friends . . .
"We can indeed see from Newton's formulation of it that the concept of absolute space, which comprised that of absolute rest, made him feel uncomfortable; he realized that there seemed to be nothing in experience corresponding to this last concept. He was also not quite comfortable about the introduction of forces operating at a distance. But the tremendous practical success of his doctrines may well have prevented him and the physicists of the eighteenth and nineteenth centuries from recognizing the
fictitious character of the foundations of his system."
- Albert Einstein, "On the Methods of Theoretical Physics"
"The one or the other is, however, being rendered much more difficult because it is by no means immediately clear what is meant by "classical theory".
Newton's theory deserves the name of a classical theory. It
has nevertheless been abandoned since Maxwell and Hertz have shown that the idea of forces at a distance has to be relinquished and that one cannot manage without the idea of continuous "fields". "
- Albert Einstein, "Reply to Criticisms" ("Albert Einstein: Philosopher-Scientist", p675)
"As far as we are able to judge at present, the general theory of relativity can be conceived only as a field theory.
It could not have developed if one had held onto the view that the real world consists of material points which move under the influence of forces acting between them."
- Albert Einstein, "The Meaning of Relativity", p134
"By 25 November 1915, Einstein had the final equations. Matter and energy were intimately linked with the geometery of space-time. Planets orbit Suns because the geometry of space-time around these massive bodies is curved, just as two drivers starting at the Earth's equator going north gradually approach each other because the Earth's surface is curved.
There is no "force" pulling them toward each other. Einstein showed that a similar, albeit more complex kind of geometrical curvature can explain gravity."
- Jeffrey Crelinsten, "Einstein's Jury", p88
"Light, and all other physical phenomena, must travel on locally curved paths in gravity. This point strongly motivates the idea that
gravity is an aspect of geometry and does not belong in the menagerie of forces!"
- John B. Kogut, "Special Relativity, Electrodynamics, and General Relativity", p198
"We already encountered one of the most surprising ones [= conceptual shifts - axo], the shift from Newton's gravitation theory to general relativity. The basic component of the former unquestionably was the gravitational force. But then
general relativity theory asserted that such a force simply does not exist, and replaced it by something radically different, namely space-time curvature. This really was a "conceptual revolution", and others followed."
- Bernard d'Espagnat, "On Physics and Philosophy", p158
"Once Einstein grasped the concept of free float in 1908, he had taken a substantial step towards the final idea:
Gravity is not a foreign and physical force transmitted through the medium that surrounds us. It is a manifestation of the curvature of that medium."
- John Archibald Wheeler, "A Journey into Gravity and Spacetime", p27
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