Creative things to do for your girlfriend.

Wisdom_Seeker said:
That was not my intention, I have a good girl myself, and no intent to look for any other. The thing is, if you have a good guy, why should you want to date someone else?
I mean, I see nothing wrong with it, except that you would be fooling yourself.
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fooling yourself how?:shrug:
 
one_raven said:
That's just your ego talking. ;)
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I know man, that´s why I keep saying that I´ve learned about myself in here. I was just being honest there.
If I don´t say it, it doesn´t change the fact that I didn´t felt it, I´m no lier, I know I have an ego. If I say it outloud, maybe I can understand it better.
 
shorty_37 said:
fooling yourself how?:shrug:
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As long as nobody gets hurt, I see nothing wrong with it.

I will talk from my stand point now:
The thing is, I don´t really care about physical relationships, if you don´t love the girl, and you have sex with her, then you are just using her for personal reasons.
I have experienced "loveless sex" in the past, and to be honest, I found no gratification at all. On the other hand, with the girl I love, is like a paradise. To make love to a girl is to give her your soul, to share the ultimate experience, to express the love of your soul in this psychophysiological realm.
I´m no kidding here, I find no gratification in loveless sex.

So if you do, is fine by me, but from my perspective, love is the ultimate experience.

I don´t really care for marriages and boyfriend-girlfriend stuff, about relationships at all; what I care about is love. For me, love is marriage in the eyes of God.

Legal marriage is nothing to me.
 
I agree on the legal marriage thing, if you love someone and
are committed the papers really shouldn't make any difference.

I do not beleive in "loveless sex" meaning sleeping around.....thats for whores.

I was kidding when i said to send her out on a date with a hot guy.......
I guess you didn't get the joking part......
oops
 
Pierce your glans and place a golden ring through it.

That ought to surprise her.

Either that, or go on a spending spree with her credit card.
 
soryy. i know im wayyyy late////

take her somewhere that she's said she's always wanted to go.
but like make it somewhere where she's only mentioned it like once or twice. That way she'll think it's romantic that you wanna take her, and that you pay attention to what she says =)
 
hey

hey anyone here from virginia? if so or if not what are some good things i could go out and do with my wife just to keep things random you know????
 
Romance doesn't have to break the bank. Let your imagination run wild. Go to your local florist and ask for the rose petals that they throw away after cleaning up their roses. They usually are free..sometimes they charge a couple of bucks. You can buy pretty candles and candle holders at a dollar store. Arrange a special night to surprise her and make a candlelit dinner with soft music playing in the background. Pick up some lingerie for her to put on and wrap it up really pretty. Give her this gift after dinner. Include a card with your own words telling her how much she means to you. Make sure before she arrives that you set the bedroom up for a night of romance.(don't let her in there until your ready for her to see it). Put some rose petals on the bed, have a trail of them leading from the door to the bed. Light some candles, have some music set up to play on the cd player. Have some champagne or wine chilling next to the bed with a couple of glasses(fancy ones also available at the dollar store) You could also write her a poem or letter expressing your thoughts and leave it on her pillow. The possibilities are endless. You could set up a candlelit picnic for her, if you didn't want to do the dinner thing. Cheese, crackers, fresh fruit you could feed each other. You could do the picnic outside under the moon and stars.....I could go on & on......... I hope I helped give you some ideas to run with. I'm confident that whatever you do, she will LOVE! She will feel so special knowing that you did what you did all exclusively for HER. Best of LUCK, I know it will be WONDERFUL!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Treval said:
Hello.

I want to surprise my girlfriend with something that is not cliché (no roses, bears, chocolate, etc.). I want to surprise her in an original way.

Any ideas are greatly appreciated.

Treval
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dunno if this has been suggested or not..

ask her..(it will mean more to her, than just the gesture)

let her give you a bunch of ways that would be romantic to her, keep asking her about different scenario's she would or would not like, through this communication process you will figure out what 'floats her boat' and you can construct a scenario that would be original and romantic for her..(extra more so, cause it is personal and not a script)
 
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