Can you stop banning members I want to talk to?

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Having more moderators is a solution to that issue
There are more moderators but they are either not here or post but don't moderate. That is not James issue.
Multiple moderators on other sites have different areas of expertise, James is physics/maths and Hercules life science. Hercules is not here to moderate James at least that is not how it works on all the other sites I'm on, one of which I'm a mod.
Physics forums do "time outs," my expression not theirs, for a contentious point from a poster.
It is called "thread locked for moderation," they have a place where they decide to end the thread or continue not but that's it.
 
The last "inner party" police action arguably involved defrocking Tiassa of mod status. If vague memory isn't playing tricks, there was a vote or opinion thread or something submitted to members as a form of tribunal.

Aside from unknown or opaque factors upholding that rank, the overt reason James would seem to be top mod is because he's the only one who is reliably slash responsibly available. Previously that would have included Tiassa, who had and still has a regular posting presence. But when the "inner party" has shrunk down to only two dependable personnel, the judgment apparently had to be farmed out.
I'm aware of the history.
I'd have thought the answer is to appoint more mods, not make excuses.
I assume the rarely seen tech would have to implement those changes for the Mod hierarchy. If the XenForo platform enables such options.
Given the apparent number of sockpuppets that James R removes, it seems simple enough for a moderator to have two accounts, and to include in the "rules" that they alone are allowed two.
Naming one "member" and the other "member_MOD" would seem simple enough.
It is a solution to many of the issues ("spats") that can be implemented now.
Literally.
Yet...
... tumbleweeds.
 
Or when Sarkus wants you to have something to say, apparently.
Please do not tell lies about other people.
You do not get to make up stories about their motivations and opinions.
You have issued other people infractions for just such behaviour.
Your willingness not to abide by the rulings for which you infract others speaks to the very issue I have raised here: no other moderators to which your posting behaviour can be reported to and curtailed, the cause of many of the “spats”.
You mean you haven't talked to him about his battles? I don't believe you.
Okay, so you don’t believe me.
Your belief or otherwise in the matter does not change reality.
Once again, though, you don’t get to make up stories about people’s motivations and opinions.
Well, you would say that, wouldn't you, given your obvious fondness for Sarkus and your obvious dislike for me?
I would say that because I see it as an unjust decision, and it speaks to an issue that I see as the root cause of this thread.
The parties involved are coincidental.
So please stop lying about other people’s motivations.
and when Sarkus wants you to have something to say.
So you keep erroneously asserting.
Please stop lying about other people’s motivations.
I'm not so sure about that.
I could not care less.
Nor does reality.
It's a personal observation of mine. Not official.
It’s not a matter of whether the observation is personal or official.
To quote you recently: “If you really are as stupid as the character you're playing here…” then it is no wonder that you missed the point that, being a moderator, you are setting the example of what behaviour you expect of others.
As such, you are here implying that such personal observations are appropriate for a member.
How about the personal observation that someone is trolling, and asks that person to stop, before returning to the thread topic?
Would that be appropriate or inappropriate?
According to you, that personal observation would be inappropriate, and worthy of infracting someone.
Why the difference?
In one instance it is you making the personal observation about someone.
In the other it is someone else making a personal observation about your post.
Is this the difference?

Perhaps it is because you have assumed a certain motivation behind them making such an observation about you?
And you perhaps deem your ability to identify other people’s motivations infallible, while they must be wrong about yours?
Of course, the only way you could know that you’re not just lying about other people’s motivations would be if you were that other person.
Is Sarkus one of your sockpuppets, James R? :eek:
I think you and I can probably discuss the signs of love in a different thread. If you really want to.
To what end?
If it is not relevant here, why raise such personal matters?
I have a "history" of claiming that you and Sarkus are the same person. I think you're probably inventing the other examples of a "history".
You have certainly questioned whether Seattle and Sarkus were the same person.
To the point that you subsequently had to admit: “To be clear, I don't now believe that you and Seattle are the same person.” - https://www.sciforums.com/threads/p...ose-ones-vested-interests.166008/post-3707642
Note the “I don’t now believe…” which meant that you did, at one point.
Therefore, history.

I vaguely recall you questioning in a similar manner whether Parmalee and someone else were the same, but if not then okay.
 
There are more moderators but they are either not here or post but don't moderate. That is not James issue.
Increasing the low activity of individual members is not something James R can do much about, but the activity of the group appointed as "moderators" very much is.
James R can appoint and unappoint moderators.
If there are moderators listed that don't do anything, that aren't here, then surely they should be removed as moderators and new ones appointed.
If a Sales Rep in a business either doesn't work at all or works but doesn't make sales, they're removed and new ones brought in.
Does the CEO look at inactive sales reps and complain that he can't do anything about it?
Multiple moderators on other sites have different areas of expertise, James is physics/maths and Hercules life science. Hercules is not here to moderate James at least that is not how it works on all the other sites I'm on, one of which I'm a mod.
This site has such low activity that you don't need subject matter moderators.
You only really need moderators that can police behaviour generally - including each others.
Other forums may have zero tolerance for crap behaviour, and moderators are well behaved, not themselves the source or fuel of contention.
Physics forums do "time outs," my expression not theirs, for a contentious point from a poster.
It is called "thread locked for moderation," they have a place where they decide to end the thread or continue not but that's it.
I don't see how that will be of much benefit.
Moderators here can already close down threads as they see fit.
It's not going to address the source of the issue, which is moderators not being held to the same standard as those they moderate.

Im not confusing anything.
Okay.
But all your talk is about anything other than the issue you're ostensibly addressing.
 
I show up when I have something I want to say.
Or when Sarkus wants you to have something to say, apparently.
Please do not tell lies about other people.
You do not get to make up stories about their motivations and opinions.

Lies? You mean following the cause-effect that you admitted yourself:

He mentioned that he had received a temporary ban, which may have caused me to visit the site,

Please do not tell lies about other people. You do not get to make up stories about people reading your own words.
 
The points system we have is essentially a courtesy to members. It is a way for you all to keep a personal tab on whether you're in line with the posting guidelines or not, and to make adjustments to how you choose to post, if necessary.

We could, of course, dispense with this system, if that's what the majority would prefer. We could jump from zero to temporary bans, with no warning points. We could issue sort of half-arsed semi-official warnings or "advice" messages to the effect of "if you keep this up, you're likely to be surprised by a temporary ban at some future date".
First, thanks for the patient and thorough reply - good to have calm and civil chat. On the points system, I'm ok with whatever members want. I've never thought forum folk much care to keep personal tabs on whether they're "in line with the posting guidelines," but it's not a procedural hill I want to die on.

At the end of the day, I've always seen preserving the dignity of each member as the goal (yes, even when they seem to lapse in such preservation themselves), so I lean towards the full-arsed and simple warning, with minimal freight, e.g. you've crossed a line there, best stop. If they don't, temp ban. If you have a personal conflict with that member then, as others say, it would be good to be able to turn that over to another mod.

I much appreciate that you take time and care to address these issues. In recognizing my relatively limited time with SFC, I'll probably bow out of further discussion on this.
 
Whoa. Hadn't seen rest of thread. Ok, I have to say that imputing a member is a sock puppet of another member is a serious matter. Shouldn't that be something shared with members when there is definitive proof, followed by removal of the puppet account? This is what other forums do, routinely. Do Sarkus and Baldee share an IP address? If not, then this shouldn't be brought into any discussion.
 
Lies? You mean following the cause-effect that you admitted yourself:
Interesting, but not entirely surprising.

Imagine you were oblivious to an ice-cream van in the park, and I pointed it out to you, and under your own volition you went to buy an ice-cream.
So, had I not pointed it out, you would almost certainly not have gone to it.
I did point it out, you did go.
You were under no obligation to go.
As to what you then purchased at the ice-cream van, if anything at all, that, too, was on you.
Would you agree with all this?
Is there anything in this hypothetical situation that you are failing to comprehend?

Do you then agree with these statements?:
I may have been the cause of you visiting the ice-cream van - in that my telling you perhaps sparked a sudden desire for ice-cream that you weren't hitherto aware of.
I didn't tell you to visit it.
I didn't advise you what, if anything, to buy.

No trick questions.
Do you agree with those statements?
If not, which ones do you disagree with, and why?

Assuming you agree (I'd suggest there are far larger issues if you find you don't):
In the same way, Sarkus may have caused me to visit this site, piquing my curiosity to see what happened.
He didn't tell me what to look at.
He didn't tell me what to write.
He didn't tell me what to say.

Do you understand?

Therefore there is no cause and effect from what I said, to what was claimed as being apparent.
Hopefully you can follow that.
Let me know if you get stuck with anything.
 
Whoa. Hadn't seen rest of thread. Ok, I have to say that imputing a member is a sock puppet of another member is a serious matter. Shouldn't that be something shared with members when there is definitive proof, followed by removal of the puppet account? This is what other forums do, routinely. Do Sarkus and Baldee share an IP address? If not, then this shouldn't be brought into any discussion.
Do we share the same IP address?
No.

Have we done in the past?
Yes.
I rented a room from Sarkus for a while.
Same house -> same wi-fi -> same IP address.
Neither of us even considered that it might be a problem.
For a while it wasn't.

The issue first arose here in 2019, and was resolved at that time, I had thought, to James R's satisfaction.
It became moot when I subsequently moved elsewhere.


Yet here we are.
 
Therefore there is no cause and effect from what I said, to what was claimed as being apparent.
Nope. Therefore it's one possibility that there is no cause-effect. It is also possible it is cause-effect.

All signs point to cause-effect - except your denial. Oh wait. You didn't deny it.


1. Your "may have" certainly did not go unnoticed. It stands out like a sore thumb as lawyer-speak: it's not a denial. You accuse James of lying about something you don't even deny yourself.

2. James said "Apparently." That denotes an observation. An observation by James of what he deems apparent cannot be categorized as a "lie". It was, for him, a plausible, provisional conclusion, based on the facts. But you deliberately escalated James' observation to "lie".



I'm not going to continue to entertain this because I don't think your motives are sincere. I think there'a lot of sour grapes here that ultimately only serves to bog the site down in churlish moaning.

There are better ways to improve the site than this. But you're not interested, are you? You admit you're lurking. You just show up when the bat signal goes up - like a paid protester at a rally. James sees a duck - one that confesses to swimming in a pond and eating soggy bread, and James observes it apparently looks like a duck. And you call him a liar. Bad faith trolling. You lose credibility.
 
which is moderators not being held to the same standard as those they moderate
No issue in three years, even when I got warned and given ten infraction points, he was fair.
Bottom line is I do not think he needs moderating, I think he covers all bases on his own very well on the site.
Could he do with another mod to spread the load? I think it help and he has said as much himself.
I am not defending him, he can do that well enough as well, i am simply stating my experience.
Enough people criticise him on different threads all the time to make me think a post supporting him is warranted.
I do not have issues with Sarkus, Parmelee or you so I urge you not to take the, " a friend of my enemy is my enemy," approach.
I only have one person on ignore who is active and I don't want to add to that.
 
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Nope. Therefore it's one possibility that there is no cause-effect. It is also possible it is cause-effect.

All signs point to cause-effect - except your denial. Oh wait. You didn't deny it.
It was cause to me visiting the site.
That I confirmed, just as I explained in the example.
Had Sarkus not informed me, I probably would not have visited, but I can not state that with certainty.
Hence "probably".
Probable effect.

There is nothing beyond that.
What I write, what I post, the responses I make, are mine and noone elses.
I don't speak for anyone else.
Noone asked me to post.
Noone even asked me to visit the site.
His telling me that he was temporarily banned is therefore not causal after that point, i.e. to me choosing to write, or to what I choose to write.
Now, if you want to go down the trivial nonsense of there being a causal chain all the way back in time then, okay, the Big Bang caused me to write something.
1. Your "may have" certainly did not go unnoticed. It stands out like a sore thumb as lawyer-speak: it's not a denial. You accuse James of lying about something you don't even deny yourself.
As explained in the example I gave.
One could say that pointing to the ice-cream van may have caused you to go to it, but it can not be said with certainty because it can not be stated with certainty that you wouldn't have seen the van without that pointer.

So, yes, what Sarkus told me may have led to me being here, it may have been the cause, as there's no guarantee that I might not have visited anyway.
It's really no more difficult than that.
2. James said "Apparently." That denotes an observation. An observation by James of what he deems apparent cannot be categorized as a "lie". It was, for him, a plausible, provisional conclusion, based on the facts. But you deliberately escalated James' observation to "lie".
I did.
Because it is.
The lie is not the observation of me saying something, it is in the deliberate assumption that it is because Sarkus asked me to.
That does not follow from anything I have said.
Couching it with "apparently" doesn't mask that accusation, especially when uttered in such bad faith.
I'm not going to continue to entertain this because I don't think your motives are sincere. I think there'a lot of sour grapes here that ultimately only serves to bog the site down in churlish moaning.
There are no sour grapes.
I have rarely been warned.
There is little here to have any sour grapes about, is there?
I just took the opportunity to highlight what I see as an obvious weakness in this site that can be resolved without too much effort.
To minimise the "spats".
There are better ways to improve the site than this.
If you want to raise them for discussion, do so.
My comments here stem from the specific issue raised in the OP, and what I saw as the root cause.
You have yet to say why you think what I propose is not a good idea, or not easy to implement.
Your only purpose for being here, it seems, is apparently to defend James R.
Did he ask you to?
Are you a sock-puppet of James R?
But you're not interested, are you?
I am interested, if you want to raise them.
You admit you're lurking.
Most of the time.
Obviously not currently.
You just show up when the bat signal goes up - like a paid protester at a rally.
I show up when I have something I want to say.
The same as you, I guess?
No payment required.
I do it for free.
James sees a duck - one that confesses to swimming in a pond and eating soggy bread, and James observes it apparently looks like a duck. And you call him a liar.
No, James R does not see a duck.
He assumes a priori a duck, and then fits everything to that conclusion.
As you are doing with your example, starting with the conclusion.
Bad faith trolling. You lose credibility.
There is no trolling.
There is another recent thread discussing how that term is overused, btw.
There is also no bad faith.
Everything I have said here is pertinent to the topic of this thread, and I have explained my position fully each time, and addressed all questions (if I have missed any, I apologise, please point them out, and I'll address them).
It is anything but bad-faith.
My starting point is perhaps not a position you, or some others, agree with.
Okay.
That does not mean bad-faith.
You may not like or agree with what I say.
You may not like how I say it.
Neither of those necessarily mean bad-faith.
However you have yet to come up with anything that actually resembles a rebuttal to my suggestions.
 
No issue in three years, even when I got warned and given ten infraction points, he was fair.
Bottom line is I do not think he needs moderating, I think he covers all bases on his own very well on the site.
Could he do with another mod to spread the load? I think it help and he has said as much himself.
I am not defending him, he can do that well enough as well, i am simply stating my experience.
Enough people criticise him on different threads all the time to make me think a post supporting him is warranted.
Okay.
Then your experience is very different to mine, and some others.
Makes the world a fun place.
I can perhaps understand this if most of your time is spent in the science sections, in the less contentious issues.

However, if you don't think moderator behaviour needs to be moderated, it should therefore be an easy task for moderators to police each other's behaviour, right?
No effort on their part, but would give us someone at least to report a moderator's behaviour to.
For those of us who perceive poor behaviour in a moderator's post.
I do not have issues with Sarkus, Parmelee or you so I urge you not to take the, " a friend of my enemy is my enemy," approach.
I don't do that.
Other than when being facetious, or making a point (see my post above. ;))
I treat everyone as I see them.
I only have one person on ignore who is active and I don't want to add to that.
That speaks again to the suggestion of moderators having 2 accounts, so that we members can utilise that ignore function for moderator's "member" posting, while ensuring we can still see their "mod-hat" posts.
It seems such a simple solution, and very easy to implement, I'd have thought.
I would very much like to put a certain person on "ignore".
But current set-up does not allow it.
Shame that there seems so little desire, even perhaps to trial it, when the benefit could be so substantial.
 
There is also no bad faith.
Bad faith is accusing someone of lying when it wasn't a lie. What irks me is the self-righteous hypocrisy.

However you have yet to come up with anything that actually resembles a rebuttal to my suggestions.
There is a place for constructive discussion, but this thread is not it. This thread is a de facto bitch-fest for anyone holding a grudge against James. Beyond offering my own experience as a balance, there's nothing for me here. Carry on.
 
However, if you don't think moderator behaviour needs to be moderated, it should therefore be an easy task for moderators to police each other's behaviour, right?
No effort on their part, but would give us someone at least to report a moderator's behaviour to.
For those of us who perceive poor behaviour in a moderator's post.
Generally that happens behind the scenes. Mods often talk offline about standards, to get another read on an insult, to see if the rules need clarification etc
 
Not having a pop at any member or mod, but if the chief mod does the hiring and firing of mods, where does that leave those who have a gripe about the chief mod?

What about not reading JR’s posts at all, when he needs to mod you, you will see his warning appear above your post.
You can then take issue with him.
 
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Baldeee:
It is that James R is the only moderator here, and is more often than not as guilty, or moreso, of trolling and dishonest behaviour as those he issues warning to (the most recent warning to Sarkus being a very good example - see below).
Speaking of dishonest behaviour, do you think that anybody reading this really thinks that your aim here is to improve sciforums? Your focus is clearly on making personal attacks on me.
In many cases he is the root cause: he riles other posters up with his behaviour: his ad hominems, his trolling, his dishonesty.
And this is you demonstrating how things should be done, with no ad hominems, no trolling and no dishonesty. Is it?
Hypocrisy and dishonesty at its finest, but, hey, that's the way this site seems to roll.
You know that you don't have to come here, don't you, Baldeee? You're not a prisoner.

Tell Sarkus that you won't run his errands here any more. Then you can be free!
Until another moderator, or ideally two, are appointed, and can offer an honest avenue for reporting and addressing James R’s behaviour, nothing will change.
It's a real pity that I'm so implacably opposed to change, isn't it, while you keep giving us all your positivity and your helpful suggestions, not to mention all the useful on-topic content that you post about science and the like (as opposed to negative meta-commentary about how bad the forum is and how bad the people who run it for you are).

The problem here is clearly me. Not the endless schoolyard battles you want to fight with and on behalf of your mate Sarkus.
Of course, James R will probably consider this post by me to simply be “piling on”, to be in bad-faith, or for being part of a conspiracy along with Parmalee, Sarkus, Tiassa, Cluelusshusband, and others, or is some form of attempt at revenge by me for previous greivances or grudges that he erroneously likes to assign to me (and others) as motivation.
It's fairly obvious to anybody who has observed your activity on this forum over the past couple of years, Baldeee, that you don't post in good faith. As for conspiracies, surely you're not going to pretend now that you and Sarkus aren't ganging up offline to work out what nasty things to post about me? That's hardly plausible, given the circumstances. Maybe you ought to come clean to your readers? What do you think?

I see that you're also trying to drag Tiassa and cluelusshusbund into your little crusade. Do you feel like you need more support?
Back to lurking I go.
Only, you didn't. I'm sure you will, now that Sarkus is back with us, though. You're not needed.
James R, and his antagonistic and dishonest posting, and his assumption that certain people only engage in bad faith.
I could offer a fuller arm-chair psycho-analysis of his character, such as he clearly struggles with strong characters who are more intelligent than him, not necessarily in specific subject matters but in being able to follow what people say, and implications thereof.
Heh. Who do you have in mind, Baldeee, who is a strong character who is more intelligent than I am? Yourself? Your mate Sarkus? cluelusshusbund? parmalee? Those are the names you mentioned most recently.

Do I sense some projection, on your part? Do you feel insecure about your own intelligence or strength of character, perhaps? I mean, we can discuss these things if you do want to go down the road where we each offer a fuller armchair psychoanalysis. Wouldn't that be productive and helpful? I'm so glad you want to engage in good faith, as always.
And he's someone who seems allergic to defusing a situation by apologising when he's in the wrong.
Record the hits. Ignore the misses. Figures.
He can't stand to be corrected.
It's not that. I just don't like dealing with people who insist on making dicks of themselves. You ought to pay more attention to the many times I have managed to weather being corrected just fine. But you don't want to do that, do you? The strawman version of me is a lot easy to knock down.
I could offer more, but there's really no need.
There was no need for you to offer anything. Please consider that next time you want to be a dick.
 
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