Attraction

[christa]

Depends what way they're facing! I love a nice big pair of hips, gives such a shapely bum and thighs. Nice boobs, rounded cheeks, nice smile, deep dark eyes, and ideally bright or dyed hair colours! Otherwise I'll settle for natural dark hair(but not short and dykey). But definite bonus points for Hayley Williams style hair.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SmOvxJhXx5Y
like her hair?

 

[Dywyddyr]

Now that is the sort of hair that does it for me.

 

[chimpkin]

perhaps, but how do you know?

The way the hair is cut and lying...and the fact that you can't see any scalp in the part. I have hair that's naturally that thick, and almost perfectly-straight. You can still see scalp in the part.
Also, considering her age...if that were a dye job, there'd be hairs of varying texture. Gray hair is thicker and wirier

It's just that you mentioned redheads...with a wig she could go platinum blonde tomorrow.
She probably has hair that's just thinning...if you're into her for her brains, well then, that's entirely different.

Dolly Parton was asked how long it took to do her hair by an interviewer, and she said "I don't know, I'm never there."

My wife is very brilliant and hysterically funny, and that totally does it for me too.

 

[christa]

Now that is the sort of hair that does it for me.

I have always loved the way female emo's have their hair.. I cannot do it to save my life, but I love how their hair is big, textured, and just looks cool to me, exp if its black with the red chunks

 

[Dywyddyr]

I have always loved the way female emo's have their hair.. I cannot do it to save my life, but I love how their hair is big, textured, and just looks cool to me, exp if its black with the red chunks

It' not so much the "emo" thing as the, I dunno, would you Americans call it "trailer trash"? dyed blonde with dark roots showing. And contrasted by dark eyebrows...

Possibly a hangover from my adolescence and Debby Harry on Top of the Pops.

 

[Cowboy]

Ever seen a Buck Angel movie?

That's the second ugliest woman I've ever seen. :bugeye:

 

[Cowboy]

If you like red heads, this is Janice Dorn, Ph.D. & M.D.; Who also writes financial articles weekly for TraderPlanet.com

If I were younger and unattached, I would find out in what city (Area code 602) she lives and if she is married, etc.

Her web page is at: www.thetradingdoctor.com where she states: " I'm a Brain Scientist ( Ph.D.) and a Board Certified* Psychiatrist and Addiction Psychiatrist ( M.D.). I am one of a handful of M.D. Psychiatrists world-wide who actively trades and coaches my fellow traders. ..."

To go after woman like her, you need to be very well educated, exceptional yourself, professionally accomplished, nice looking, fun to be with, and probably a little different from most others. Being rich would not be too important to her, but having knowledge and interest in economics / investments would be a big plus. Forty years ago, I would have had a chance, especially as I had done brain surgery on monkeys and know a lot about at least the visual system of the brain, and economics / finance (from very poor grad student to self made millionaire), but I am quite happy with my smart and kind Brazilian Beauty, College Professor, Ph.D., who holds my views as to what is important, in most things.
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* That ain't easy to get. About half of the M.D.s who take the typically day long exams fail to pass the first time.

Run, Forrest, run! She has the crazy-eyes!

 

[christa]

Run, Forrest, run! She has the crazy-eyes!

don't hurt to bad, she isn't to great lookin.

 

[Ruminative]

Just looking at previous posts you can see that everyone has their own tastes. However, I believe the majority of the population finds a youthful body, intelligence and the ability to control (their own lives, other peoples lives etc...) to have some value for considering a partner.

 

[christa]

Just looking at previous posts you can see that everyone has their own tastes. However, I believe the majority of the population finds a youthful body, intelligence and the ability to control (their own lives, other peoples lives etc...) to have some value for considering a partner.

Well see, I am trying to find out what they personally like. Because the world has so many options and tastes.

 

[Cowboy]

don't hurt to bad, she isn't to great lookin.

Yeah, but crazy and hot is preferable to crazy and ugly.

 

[christa]

Yeah, but crazy and hot is preferable to crazy and ugly.

could be true

 

[Cowboy]

could be true

Oh, it's true in many cases. I've known plenty of guys who put up with crappy girlfriends simply because they were really attractive. I'm sure there are women who have done the same.

 

[christa]

Oh, it's true in many cases. I've known plenty of guys who put up with crappy girlfriends simply because they were really attractive. I'm sure there are women who have done the same.

ya, I am not the GREATEST looking woman out there but daym, I know how to treat my men very well (like KINGS). and they all cheat on me, and ya.. lol

 

[Anti-Flag]

if only you knew... but on a good note, for some odd reason, I REALLY LOVE to screw with the last ex.. I feel bad for the new girl he is talking to tho, I will not warn her.. I have stopped being in love with him, and now, I just use him.. But I think that is going to be stopping.. Its just not there anymore..

As much as they deserve it don't ya think that kinda makes you a bit bad too? :shrug:
But that said, when the world has websites advertising their services to hook up people who are already married, you know there's no point getting involved with people.

 

[Asguard]

ya, I am not the GREATEST looking woman out there but daym, I know how to treat my men very well (like KINGS). and they all cheat on me, and ya.. lol

Then I would suggest your looking for the wrong kind of men. I belive the current statistics are about 1:10 people cheat, however that doesn't take personality into account. If you date Gen Simmons's he's GOING to cheat. You need to find something attractive in the other 9 peopled

 

[Anti-Flag]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SmOvxJhXx5Y
like her hair?

Yeh that style's quite good. Colour is pretty terrible though. I wouldn't like girls with much shorter hair than that, though longer is quite nice but it's hard to get that to look right if the hair is dyed. I've seen Hayley look best as Red, Bright Orange, or even Pink was ok.

Just looking at previous posts you can see that everyone has their own tastes. However, I believe the majority of the population finds a youthful body, intelligence and the ability to control (their own lives, other peoples lives etc...) to have some value for considering a partner.

I would have expanded that to say the ability to control the things the observer considers important in a positive way. For example being able to control other people and using that to take advantage is definitely not sexy.

Well see, I am trying to find out what they personally like. Because the world has so many options and tastes.

Geez you must have a lot of free time. It took me 5 hours to describe my "ideal" woman to someone. And that was just her looks, the least important part.

 

[Billy T]

As much as they deserve it don't ya think that kinda makes you {christa} a bit bad too?...

"Bad" is a moral judgement, which IMHO, does not apply to things consenting adults do to and for each other.

What I think her activity does is make her common, with little to distinguish or recommend herself to someone interested in a more serious relationship.

The M.D., Ph. D., professional financial adviser, I posted about happened to be reasonably attractive, as far as I can tell from her photo, but spent years distinguishing herself from others to become 1 in 10,000. - A highly unique woman, and attractive to people like me who want a lot in the woman they go with and are not willing to accept those that are a "dime a dozen" even if great in bed (except perhaps for a few months between more serious relationships).

PS - I agree her photo makes her look a little timid, unsure of her self, but I suspect that is what she wanted it to do. Many men are scared off by a women so accomplished. She is a Board Certified Psychiatrist , and no doubt knows this and a lot more about men.

I lived more than a year with a very intelligent lady, also a psychologist, and not bad looking. (We kept our separate apartments but most nights, one was not occupied.) She also translated Russian books into English professionally in her spare time. She occasionally said she sometimes regretted her education - it made too few men attractive to her, and most that were were unfortunately homosexuals. My first marriage had ended, and she wanted to marry me, or at least have me try to reverse my vasectomy so she could have a child by me. - That and some of her personality defects, from my POV, is why we eventually split.

 

[christa]

As much as they deserve it don't ya think that kinda makes you a bit bad too? :shrug:
But that said, when the world has websites advertising their services to hook up people who are already married, you know there's no point getting involved with people.

You do have a point. Noone cares is a relationship works or not anymore.

Then I would suggest your looking for the wrong kind of men. I belive the current statistics are about 1:10 people cheat, however that doesn't take personality into account. If you date Gen Simmons's he's GOING to cheat. You need to find something attractive in the other 9 peopled

I do not believe in looking for a man, I meet ppl, and I see things as a friendship, and if sparks come from it, then awesome! If not then I atleast have a friend.

Geez you must have a lot of free time. It took me 5 hours to describe my "ideal" woman to someone. And that was just her looks, the least important part.

No, not alot of free time.. Just wanna hear points of views.

 

[domesticated om]

Dear God, that is picky.

What makes you even notice those things? Seriously? You stop and note it down every time someone complains of the sun, or an allergy, or gets cold, or hypoglycemic?

It's not like every potential lover I've been with I met suddenly without spending time with them beforehand. If your love life is anything like mine's been, many of your lovers come from friends, co-workers, etc --- perhaps people you see every day.

That being said, yes I definitely notice a lot of that stuff - but it's not like it's hard to see or anything. You spend time with anybody, you get to know them. For example, I go out to lunch with these people they'll obviously say things like "Oh - I can't try that spicy thing you're offering to me because of my stomach ulcer" or something like that.

Is it being picky? Well -- when you imagine yourself with someone, what do you imagine yourself doing with them? Don't you imagine things like...... going to a chili cookout with your mate and laughing/sharing the experience of the spicy food ("Holy moley honey -- that last one was spicy!! let's try enough one!" - laughter ensues). If you're a dog lover, wouldn't it suck to give up dogs because your partner is allergic? You imagine yourself make wild passionate love in a tent out in the woods someday, but your partner is a delicate weenie about being outdoors. it's very noble to sacrifice that stuff, but my god is it annoying.....especially in the long term.

That's what you get when you ignore the quirks. There are people who adapt, and there are people with piles and piles of these limitations. I'm attracted to the adapters