Although the war was dispicable, the blame i think can pretty much fall on one man, Sir Henry Bartle Fraire , he engineared the war with the zulu people diliberatly , and ignored king Chetsowayo's plee's for peace (and even offeard Gold!).
I dont think the british government was keen on the idea of war with the zulus, nor queen Vicotria.
Bartle Fraire paid a price though for his actions ,as his son was killed at Isandlwana.
The zulu leadership at Isandlwana was superb, So few men escaped the slaughter, all 5 companies left to guard the camp were TOTALY wiped out , only a few band persons and a mounted infantry man of the 24th escaped, Both of the Artllery peices were lost and hundreads of native contingent and riders, camp staff and Royal Artillery people were lost, only people on horse had a chance of escape, even the colours of the 24th were lost in the buffalo river, there are some really horrific accounts of the battle and its hero's.
Ive got more to type but cant type much more tonight,Some of the facts (numbers) arent accurate as i couldnt be botherd to look them up, but will edit it tommorow.
What are people theorys as to why the british defeat at Isandlwana??