I guess it's time to dust off the ol' keyboard and hop back into debate. Two years I suppose is long enough of an absence.
The fact is that you can't prove that you are experiencing the same color as I am. Just like you can't prove that you are experienceing the same sensation that anyone else does when exposed to the same stimuli. In fact, I have very poor color vision, so I will not see the infinite shades of colors that other people are capable of seeing.
That is why philosophers in the modern era separated items properties into two kinds.
The primary properties are such things as mass, volume, charge, wavelength, spin number, composition and depending on who you ask, shape, function and spatial location. Note that these are all measurable quantities. You can discuss with a blind person all of these things, or with someone who has never experienced a certain thing by these methods. You can eved discuss red light with a blind man, and though he does not experience the light, he is able to discuss the wavelength that it is emitted, and what those things mean.
Secondary properties are things as taste, touch, smell, color, and other purely sensual qualities. They are capable of changing from person to person and do not inherently affect the nature of the object itself.
Descartes writes (and this is the only time I think he's on to anything) that he may hold a piece of beeswax in his hand. It is colored, is sweet smelling, tastes of honey, is hard when he raps his hand against it, and yet when he holds it close to a flame, the scent leaves, it is pliable, and hot, and is texturally different. When he takes the oozing wax away from the flame, it is hard again, has no smell, taste or color to speak of, and is once again hard. These can change because they are not inherent properties of the wax itself.