This is the main point of refuting your OP.
- The calculations in your OP imply a solution to blinking out as a result of very high speed.
- But very high speed results in sonic booms.
- Therefore it does not resolve the issue.
As you say, one must look to other explanations. Which is why hypotheses such as extra dimensions are posited.
This is the reason why, as you say,
"nobody has bothered to do these simple calculations before."
and
"this is old news"
Because it was quickly realized that it doesn't resolve anything.
But these calculations will in the end be .....eye opening.