why do woman like complete dickheads?

Discussion in 'Human Science' started by Muslim, Jun 1, 2006.

  1. Muslim Immortal Valued Senior Member

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    I mean, this girl she is studying sociology - I'd you expect her to me more understanding about peoples feelings. But get this I ask her out she says yes two days later she dumps me and shes like I wanna be friends with you am not ready for a relationship.

    And am like "wft? what do you mean you didn't even give me a chance" and shes like "Well I just wanna be free and single I don't want to be committed"

    And then later on she tells me that she kisses this guy her "friend" and this guy is such a fucking asshole you wouldn't believe - he has a girl friend right and, he kisses this girl (French kiss tongues and shit) and she like all cool with it and she likes him and she keeps telling me she isn't attracted to him and they're just friends.

    So anyway we are supposed to be friends me and this girl I like, and she constantly flirts with me that pisses me off I mean I don't want a cock tease every time I see her and know that I can't be with her. Its just totally fucks my head.

    So anyway I called her a slut well I said to her that "yo A*** you act like a slut, you flirt with everyone" and shes like "omg you just didn't say that what makes you think I flirt" and am like "well kissing your 'friend' and sending me dirty text messages saying that you want me to come on your tits" and shes like "well OK I'll stop doing that"

    But she hasn't she keeps doing it and I am getting really mad about it. I know what she wants she wants a motherfucker she wants a guy who's going to treat her like a shit like a slut/hoe what is up with that.

    And shes so indecisive damn man its unbelievable.



    What do you all think I should do and what does this bitch really want?
     
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  3. hotsexyangelprincess WMD Registered Senior Member

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    Does this belong in Human Science?

    Find a new girl. Some are idiots. :m:
     
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  5. Muslim Immortal Valued Senior Member

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    Yeah I would think it does. Yeah I know its easier said then done. I really like her. She smells so nice.
     
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  7. Silkworm Registered Senior Member

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    Muslim, hello? You said it, women like absolute dickheads! We're FREE! We're FREE!

    Also, don't take personal relationships too seriously. The only effort you should make and know that things work is none whatsoever. People are complex organisms with free will and their own emotions, thoughts, values, and beings divorced from all other humans - everyone is unique. Just live and let live man, and everything will work out great.
     
  8. Muslim Immortal Valued Senior Member

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    So I should just leave her? I want to make her jealous though.
     
  9. hotsexyangelprincess WMD Registered Senior Member

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    Don't waste your time on that. My mother says that the best revenge is "going on to live a better life without them". So just do whatever, and ignore her. :m:
     
  10. Muslim Immortal Valued Senior Member

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    I can't ignore her. Shes constantly in my face.
     
  11. hotsexyangelprincess WMD Registered Senior Member

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    Same with my ex. She has been in 4 of my 8 classes this year, and I have managed to speak to her not once in the year.

    If you can't ignore her, then just be civil. Decent, of course. :m:
     
  12. Silkworm Registered Senior Member

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    Muslim just go about your business and pursue your own interests, she's showed you she's not worth your time, just go and do your thing. Trust me, that makes a woman more jealous than anything, and nothing makes her more desperate for your attention than lack of a tribute - which is what you'd be giving her by trying to make her jealous.

    Just don't treat her with any special consideration, because does she really deserve any?

    The only thing that should be important to you is what you want, and if you're not getting it from here go elsewhere until you find it.
     
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  13. draqon Banned Banned

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    dude if she want you to come on her tits, then go and do it. She doesnt need any talk, just go there and do it, she wants action.
     
  14. Muslim Immortal Valued Senior Member

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    But the point is she is just saying that, she doesn't want any of that. I don't know am really emotionally drained with her. I give up.
     
  15. draqon Banned Banned

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    she does want it. She is kissing the guy to excite you, so that you become jealous, and will force her to have sex. Some women really love to feel power over them, they like the feeling of their man being powerful.
     
  16. Fraggle Rocker Staff Member

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    This girl is the perfect female equivalent of a "complete dickhead." (I just can't deprive somebody else of the fun of coming up with the right word.) So why do you like her? Figure that out and you'll be well on the way to answering your own question.

    And I don't mean to put you down. We've all been there, we've all done that.

    But don't treat her like shit. Not even if you're positive that's what she wants. Not even it that turns out to really be what she does want. She's either shallow, insincere, and manipulative, or else she's just plain sick. In either case you shouldn't want to play that game. You don't need the practice of behaving that way and you don't need the experience of what it feels like to be that kind of a person. Neither of those things will do you any good in your quest to become the kind of man you'd be proud to have as a friend, father, son, brother, or brother-in-law. Maybe it would give you a sense of revenge, but revenge is the most destructive of all human emotions and should not be indulged.

    As for "sosh" majors, sociology deals with humans in large groups like nations. It doesn't get into feelings. Her curriculum does not include those particular psychology courses.
     
  17. one_raven God is a Chinese Whisper Valued Senior Member

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    Damn! You beat me to it.
    Muslim, he is so right.

    Why do YOU like such a dickhead of a woman?
    Because she smells nice?
    Would that be an acceptable answer to you if she said she likes this dickhead because HE smells nice, regardless fo how much of an asshole he is?

    Think about it for a second, that's all it should take.
    What's more important to you, someone who smells nice, or someone who will treat you with respect?
     
  18. one_raven God is a Chinese Whisper Valued Senior Member

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    And don't listen to a word of what dragon, the apparent date-rapist, has to say about this.
    Do you want him dating your sister?
     
  19. Carcasm not a Nilometer, a Realometer Registered Senior Member

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    What the hell are you talking about, saying she wants do be raped? You don't understand women at all...or the women you know are really crazy. Its much more complex than that. Perhaps she does want dominance..that is clear...but by enticing you, she is actually the one in control. I mean, this is about a girl who is using her sexual power in a devious way, and less about a girl who wants to be sexually dominated. Cumming on her tittays is not true dominance...the manipulative games she is playing definitely are.
    If you think she's such a bitch, how ethical is it to act the same way back? If you messed around with other girls just to make her jealous, you would also be somewhat slutty and manipulative, if you think thats what she is.
    Its a messy world of dating out there. Before I clicked on the thread topic, all I saw was "why do women like complete", and I knew that the last word would be "dickheads" or "assholes" before I even saw it.
    All I can say is that there ARE nice girls out there, but theyre just as hard to find as nice guys. Just keep your confidence and have high standards, but not just about how good she looks or how kinky she is, or whatever.
     
  20. madanthonywayne Morning in America Registered Senior Member

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    Women are attracted to alpha males. They claim to like "sensitive" guys, but as soon as they sence that you are one, you fall into the friend category. You're considered a women.

    Look at the number of women throwing themselves at convicted murderers, rock stars, or politicians. To quote Scarface:

     
  21. Roman Banned Banned

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    After a few bacardi breezers, Muslim, you should force yourself on her. See how hard she resists. Quote the Quran while you do so, and if you ever become coitally engaged, shout "Oh Jesus Mohammad! pbuh!"

    Did you ever find out what was infecting your dick?
     
  22. Roman Banned Banned

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    I have a better idea. Get to gether with your muslim buddies and kill her because she's a slut.

    Or better yet, suicide bomb her and her family. That'll teach 'em.
     
  23. Carcasm not a Nilometer, a Realometer Registered Senior Member

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    I mostly agree with you. However, not ALL women are this way, just like not ALL men are assholes. The exceptions are rare, but worth the search.
    Take it from me. I was brutally abused emotionally by a boyfriend as a teenager. But then I got smart, and strong... and now I have an awesome boyfriend. And I certainly don't consider him a woman because he treats me with respect...I mean, if you're looking for something other than a power trip over a girl, then you should ignore gender stereotypes cause they're largely an act. Me and my man have a power balance, with either one of us in control depending on the situation. But most people in this country are simple-minded and stupid, and therefore have ugly relationships where they fill simple roles. They don't think. They aren't individuals.
     

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