why do people feel this way?! ARghh help! Keep this sane!

Discussion in 'Free Thoughts' started by Chakitai, Dec 30, 2002.

  1. Chakitai Registered Member

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    How do u know when you are going to be with that someone for the rest of your life? As in "they are the one?" I've been with my guy for almost a year now and we are both feeling that we have something here, but I AM confused because I don't know. I have strong feelings for him and I love him. But I feel he is the one and everything that's been happening points to fate. I'm fifteen and he's sixteen. Is there such things as highschool sweet hearts.? I'm on my big sisters name on her, her Chakitai whatever you call it and I need advice. My sister suks on it so if anyone can help me I would be sooo happy thanks
     
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  3. GL3Vector Sword Inactive Not Retire Registered Senior Member

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    There is such a thing as high school sweethearts. Sometimes it works out and sometimes not--it just depends on the couple involved.

    Try taking it one day at a time. Let the relationship develop at it's own pace, because what seems world shattering today can often seem very trivial six months down the line. If he's still there in six months, see if he sticks another six months.

    Since only time can determine the result of your current relationship, give time to time.
     
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  5. AshenLee Registered Senior Member

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    hmmmm....only time will tell! But in the long run who knows....he could be the one! Good luck! best wishes
     
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  7. AshenLee Registered Senior Member

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    o and one more thing...............don't spend all of your time thinking about him. He could be gone tomorrow. If he stays, then he stays
     
  8. NightFall Lazy Hedonist Valued Senior Member

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    don't keep yourself tied up with him or your gonna miss highschool and kick yourself later. but is it possible? sure!
    im still with my sweetheart, althought we did seperate for a bit... but we began dating when i was 13.

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  9. silver Registered Senior Member

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    I agree: take it a day at a time. As trite as this sounds if it's meant to be it will happen.

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  10. NightFall Lazy Hedonist Valued Senior Member

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    oh i definately do.
    i beleive that there is one person out there for everyone. that everyone has someone else that is exactly perfect ofr them and they are for that person. the chances of two matching people ever meeting are very very slim, as one could be born in austrailia, and the other in canada and they never meet. I think that it is easy to fall in love with someone who is not that perfect one. and there is nothing wrong with that. you can still have a wonderful and happy life with someone...

    but i think there is someone specific out there for each one of us.
     
  11. NightFall Lazy Hedonist Valued Senior Member

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    everyone has an exact match. as in.. the whole world is pairs. but 99% of the time, those pairs dont end up together...

    its like socks. when you buy a pack of ten pair of white socks, (im trying not to make this a racial thing here), you can wear any of those 20 socks together and they'll look great. but.. only two of those socks are the orgional pair.

    well, imagine if you owned 3 billion pairs of socks, and your mom un rolled them all before she put them in your (very large) top drawer. the chance of pulling out a pair of socks that were together in the package is pretty slim. but that dpesn't mean that they wont match.

    i hope that made sense.
     
  12. slim Texican Registered Senior Member

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    "well, imagine if you owned 3 billion pairs of socks, and your mom un rolled them all before she put them in your (very large) top drawer. the chance of pulling out a pair of socks that were together in the package is pretty slim. but that dpesn't mean that they wont match."

    i hope that made sense.

    *Well, yes and no.... hard to imagine owning three billion pairs of socks!

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    ... hehe... they'd NEVER all get together or worn.. Gezz.. you got a pair a week, 52 weeks inna year, 52 years in 52 years, they would prolly be out of style by then, plus, wagging them around everywhere.. etc...and if you lost one... aww.. the responsibility that goes with that!

    about the original question.. Enjoy each others company, hopefully you will grow together and not apart. Time will tell, play it by ear and enjoy your youth! do not make it your entire life, because it may not last.. like a fad! in five years you may not even stand the sight of each other and it may seem trivial then..an old flame to laugh about.
     

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