Why Men Stop Having Sex

Discussion in 'Human Science' started by dixonmassey, Feb 27, 2009.

  1. copernicus66 Banned Banned

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    So much effort! No wonder men aren't bothering.

    Anyway, the answer to the OP is simple. Men sometimes don't want sex because they are too physically and/or mentally exhausted. Why some women seem to think that such a thing only applies to them is a little puzzling. Men aren't fucking machines.
     
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  3. visceral_instinct Monkey see, monkey denigrate Valued Senior Member

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    Can I demand sex whenever I want it, though? Say he was genuinely really tired or sick, is it ok for me to say 'Ok, come over here and stick it in me right now' and if he doesn't want to, just help myself to another male who's willing?
     
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  5. Baron Max Registered Senior Member

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    Yes, exactly! Do that, VI, then report back to us how well it went for you.

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  7. visceral_instinct Monkey see, monkey denigrate Valued Senior Member

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    Damn that sounds fucking bleak.

    I would prefer a situation of mutual respect and understanding, where if he is feeling tired or sick he doesn't have to 'perform', and equally if my usually hyperactive libido is low for some reason he is understanding and doesn't mind servicing himself for one damn night.

    But that's just me. Damn little idealistic 18 year old that I am. I should grow some mental Kevlar and accept that people are fucking cold, should't I.
     
  8. madanthonywayne Morning in America Staff Member

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    Hmm. Maybe he "left her" with all that work because he was also working to provide for the family while she was staying home with the kids? Maybe he worked a 12 hour day, came home, helped make dinner, helped clean up after dinner, helped carry the laundry up and down the stairs, repaired the various things around the house that broke that day, got the kids ready for bed, read them a story, and still had plenty of energy left for some nocturnal pleasure only to find his wife had already fallen asleep.

    But, of course it couldn't happent that way. The man in question must be a lazy, drunken oaf.
    I agree that it would be pretty tough to switch sexual orientation if one had no predisposition in that direction whatsoever. But, for instance, this friend of yours who fathered five children was clearly interested enough in women to get/maintain an erection and impregnate his wife multiple times. I'd say the same would apply to my friend. Seems to me they both must be a bit bisexual. I don't think I, for one, could perform sexually with a man even if I wanted to. How are these 100% gay from birth men able to perform with women?
     
  9. Baron Max Registered Senior Member

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    Well, yeah, ain't that ideal grand? But, VI, you're not taking into account how it might be if you and your mate end up having conflicting cycles, and you end up never, ever being "in the mood" both at the same time ...forever! How's that fuck up your idealistic concept?

    Idealism is something that does nothing but make you miserable and unhappy. Better to learn to accept the things that you can't change, and change the things that you have the ability to change. ....and a husband or male ain't one of those things that you can change!

    Get a nice dog, VI, and you'll find out what unconditional love really is. Then, of course, you can go searching for a man who exhibits the same traits as the dog .....you'll live happily everafter in a gingerbread house.

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  10. visceral_instinct Monkey see, monkey denigrate Valued Senior Member

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    I severely doubt that. I have a ridiculously high libido, and most men's is not exactly low either, unless they are hypogonadal.

    That's why I want an Alsatian dog instead of a child. They don't whine and need breast feeding at 3am, require their bottoms wiped, fart all the time like male children do, or use words to be hurtful as female children love to do.

    Don't know what I'm going to do about sex, though. I think I will just get me a blow up doll. I could give him a name and pretend he was alive...or put him in an ice cold bath for half an hour, and pretend he was a human with rigor mortis.
     
  11. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    No whining? no stop nagging me? no but you didn't tell me ?

    That would be the day Women started having more sex....

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  12. Baron Max Registered Senior Member

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    Yeah, and then you'd wear the guy out and have to go out and find another one ....and go through the same process all over again!

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    Guys talk about sex a lot, but actually doing it?? Oh, no, that's only in the movies!! We actually prefer drinking cold beer and playing video games!

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  13. copernicus66 Banned Banned

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    Of course. Fraggle's misandry is what I find most grating about him. It's almost like he's bought into all of this feminist bullshit so that he can get plenty of pussy.
     
  14. Bells Staff Member

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    Mod Note

    This thread is not about sexual positions preferred by members, nor is it about fucking one's animals, and it isn't about the sex toys of your choosing. It is also not a dating service, nor is it a birth sign discussion site.

    There is a function available to you where if you want to have "LOL kthxbai" chats about sex, you can form a social group to discuss your sexual preferences, your liking of sex with animals, astrology.. invite all your friends and discuss it in that format. Or open up a thread about it.. if you are going to open it up in one of the science forums of this site, I would suggest applying some form of scientific method and not "LOL Kthxbai" chat.


     
  15. iceaura Valued Senior Member

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    Whoever made up that fantasy wouldn't need to read the bedtime story - they've got imagination to spare.

    There's a percentage of guys like that, and they should be left to the prostitutes who best match their idea of an honest woman.
     
  16. visceral_instinct Monkey see, monkey denigrate Valued Senior Member

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    Hey! I don't want to fuck animals! Baron started that shit, not me.
     
  17. clusteringflux Version 1. OH! Valued Senior Member

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    Iceaura, I love you but I find this comment damn insulting. There ARE relationships EXACTLY like the one Madant has described. Dare I say, more and more of them everyday. Maybe men are fighting back against the Homer Simpson, Al Bundy stereotypes that the whole world has slapped on them. Meanwhile, women seem to be taking comments like yours and using them to justify whatever ridiculous behavior they want to engage in. I know men ripping their hair out trying to be everything to everyone while wify-poo yacks on the phone, flirts on myspace or spending money on stupid thing they simply cannot afford like nails, hair, expensive clothes etc.
    I'm not saying that there's a shortage of selfish guys out there. But to say that a hardworking husband is a fantasy is just plain wrong. In fact, almost all the men I know (or choose to know) are busting their ass trying to provide some kind of normalcy for their kids/wives in an otherwise FUCKED world. And there's a great number of single men out there that would do almost anything to have a crack at it.
     
  18. mikenostic Stop pretending you're smart! Registered Senior Member

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    You can, but you may or may not like the results.
    Even me, with my high octane libido, if my girl was genuinely sick, I would never demand sex from her. I would be more concerned about her being taken care of for the moment. Now, if she was sick and happened to be horny and wanted it even in that state, who would I be to protest? :shrug:

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    What I meant was when the woman is never in the mood, when she never allows herself to be in the mood. You women think you have to be in a good mood first to have sex. WHY? Sex is supposed to put you in a good mood.
    When I'm cranky or feeling not the best, that's when I want to have sex the most.
    Now if there are extenuating circumstances like being sick, injured, etc. then I could understand. But when 'I have a headache' or 'I'm not in the mood'. becomes a habit, then that's a problem.


    Without a doubt. I can't stand people. They get on my nerves to no end.

    Baron, you need to post more often. Your 'tell it like it is' statements never fail to entertain me.
    But unfortunately, I seem to be hard wired to have a huge problem with accepting things I can't change. Serenity does not come to me very easily at all.

    I have three. And they've shown me anything, it's the true definition of unconditional love...and loyalty. If I can find a woman who shows me half the love and loyalty that they do, she will have a kept man.
    However it's getting to the point of 'the more people I meet, the more I like my dogs'.

    :roflmao: That's some sarcasm gold right there!
    So many women bitch, whine and scream that there aren't any good guys out there, but soooo unwilling to put forth the effort in keeping him.

    This is one reason I don't put up with any crap from women.

    If we ever meet, I am buying you a pitcher of beer of your choice.
    That post hit the nail right on the head.
    However, relationships wind up like that because the man is just too tolerant of their behavior. Men, do not tolerate this crap and women will stop acting like that. They will have no choice, unless they want to be alone, which women seem to have an aversion to (superior gender my ASS).


    Bells,
    If you don't realize by now that sometimes thread conversations take tangients here and there, then maybe you shouldn't be modding.
    Sometimes you have to go 'out on a limb' tangient to make a point. While there have been some tangients in here, this thread is far from being derailed. Your mod note seems to have derailed this thread much more than anything we've posted.

    Women don't care about that. All they care about is if they have that 'feeling' about the guy on the first date. If they don't, regardless of what a good guy he is, he doesn't get a second date. Women focus on 'that feeling' and only that feeling, and not what they need.
    Speaking of tangients, sorry about that one, but it coincides in the sense that knowing all of this can be very discouraging to the guy...to the point he doesn't even want to date.
     
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    This thread did not just go off on a tangent. It had veered completely off topic, so much so that posts made about the subject matter itself ended up looking off topic because of the "conversations" being held in this thread. I had made requests previously in this thread, asking to keep it on topic.

    If you have a complaint to make about how I moderate this forum, you are free to take it up with the administrators of this site who can review the deletions and the mod note I have made. Yes, they can actually read what I deleted in this thread and if they feel I over-stepped my boundaries, they can reinstate the "conversations" and remove me as a moderator. As I said, if you wish to request a review of my moderating in this thread and my position as a moderator, please do so.
     
  20. visceral_instinct Monkey see, monkey denigrate Valued Senior Member

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    Oh right, I understand you. Well that is reasonable.

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    Same here, to some extent - I'm probably most horny when feeling happy and confident, but yes - sex is a great drug when feeling cranky or just a bit shit.

    Ditto. People are wrecking my head right now. I won't go into detail.

    Again, why I want a dog instead of keeping another human around.

    Hmm..to some extent I will act on that feeling. But logic is at work too. I won't have a raging drug addict or moron just because he has jagged facial features and gives me a rush in the blood.
     
  21. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    But if she doesn't feel anything for the guy, isn't it better that she not waste his time?
    Or should she go out with him time after time, having him pay for dates, then have him call her a gold digging dick tease when she still doesn't feel anything for him.

    and what do you think women 'need'.
     
  22. Nasor Valued Senior Member

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    Umm....
     
  23. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    Yeah he is good entertainment indeed.

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    I put forth so much effort, the only thing he has to do is wipe his ass!
    I take that statement from him, because he recently told someone that.
     

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