Why Men Stop Having Sex

Discussion in 'Human Science' started by dixonmassey, Feb 27, 2009.

  1. dixonmassey Valued Senior Member

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    I've stumbled upon various pieces of information suggesting that European men are not immune at all. For example

    Why UK men are losing interest in sex?
     
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  3. Baron Max Registered Senior Member

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    Rambo knife? Oh, yeah, sure ...but I only use it to keep the horny women at bay. I just can't bring myself to shoot a woman ....Mommy taught me that it wasn't nice to shoot girls or women. So I use the knife to scare them a little.

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  5. dixonmassey Valued Senior Member

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    Another book. Something in the air.

    The Sex-Starved Wife: What to Do When He's Lost Desire


    In 2003, bestselling author and relationship expert Michele Weiner Davis' groundbreaking book, The Sex-Starved Marriage described the problems that occur in marriage when one spouse is vastly more interested in sex than the other and more importantly, what the couple could do to fix things. The book created quite a stir, but no one expected what happened next.

    Weiner Davis was flooded with e-mails, letters, and phone calls from women, not with "headaches" and other predictable excuses for avoiding sex, but from women who were desperately unhappy because their husbands weren't the least bit interested in sex. Nothing these women said or did got their men to understand the pain and isolation that comes from a sexual void, and despite heartfelt pleas, they were unable to convince their husbands to seek professional help. Add to this the unspoken taboo about discussing low libido in men, and these women were left to believe that they were the only ones dealing with this problem.

    If this sounds like your situation, Weiner Davis wants to tell you that you are not alone, and it is not your fault: there is a whole host of reasons why your husband might be experiencing low desire. Although Weiner Davis explains reasons men lose interest in sex--biological issues, personal troubles, and relationship problems--she's convinced that understanding the cause of a problem won't make your sex life any juicier; doing something about it will. The Sex-Starved Wife gives you the tools you need to present the information in the book so that your husband will not become defensive. You'll even learn methods for overcoming sexual dysfunctions such as performance anxiety, premature ejaculation, and effective ways for dealing with pornography or infidelity. If you and your spouse need additional support, Weiner Davis offers concrete advice on how to get your man to visit his doctor or seek other professional help.

    When it comes to marriage, Weiner Davis has seen it all. She knows how important loving, satisfying sex is to a healthy marriage. The straightforward, psychobabble-free advice in this book will help you create the intimacy and connection for which you've been longing.
     
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  7. visceral_instinct Monkey see, monkey denigrate Valued Senior Member

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    Oh don't worry. I don't claim to be loving or compassionate. Hell, I am probably the least loving and compassionate person on this forum.

    Like anything not blind would want to fuck you.
     
  8. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    HA HA! They are just horny for your wallet, Sugar Daddy...

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  10. Baron Max Registered Senior Member

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    Ahh, good! I wondered why I sorta' liked you all along ....even when you were being mean and nasty to me. Keep up the good work of hating humans, it's best, ya' know.

    No, that's not true! Even the blind ones don't want to fuck me.

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  11. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    What their seeing eye dog takes one sniff of you and gives them the no go?
    :roflmao:
     
  12. visceral_instinct Monkey see, monkey denigrate Valued Senior Member

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    Hopefully it would just bite his balls off.

    Edit: Or just rip his intestines out. He would still be annoying if he only had his balls bitten off and remained alive.

    *Happy thoughts involving carnassial teeth and intestines*
     
  13. Asguard Kiss my dark side Valued Senior Member

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    dixonmassey i wonder how many of these men have had prostate cancer. The treatment (removal of the prostate) leaves men unable to ever have sex again no matter what. Yet with all the money going into breast cancer resurch and resurch for a cure for lyphodema after breast cancer surgury, little to none is going into helping with the problems which men experiance.

    This is just typical of the way mens health is treated by the community and goverment. It seems that the only area of mens health which is important at the moment is the small number of men which have a tendancy to be violent and LESS than NONE to the oposite problem (women who are the violent partner in domestic violence)
     
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    With a banjo quietly strumming 'Deliverance' in the background.

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    Anywho back to the general comment I was going to say before 'Deliverance' got me side-tracked, Baron's weird sex and knives topic aside and VI's dreams of dogs and balls, lets ermm.. keep it on topic.. or something..

    Thank ye kindly.
     
  15. darksidZz Valued Senior Member

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    I never starrted

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  16. Fraggle Rocker Staff Member

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    I can't tell if they're talking about:
    • Men losing interest in having intercourse with their wives (or other monogamous partner) and looking elsewhere, perhaps without success
    • Men losing interest in having intercourse but continuing to masturbate
    • Men losing the ability to have an erection but still having a healthy libido
    • Men losing their libido--their desire to have sexual activity
    Oh come on. Do any men, older than sixteen anyway, believe that more than a tiny percentage of real-life women are like that? If there are any here, please allow me to disabuse you of the notion. That is called "fiction" because it's fictitious. Some women pretend to be that way because they think their man likes it (or some even more perversely because they think he doesn't) and there are a few bona fide nymphomaniacs running around that you'll never meet because you're sitting here with your computer. The rest of them appreciate having intercourse and an orgasm (not every time but try your best) somewhere between the extremes of every day or two and oh-did-we-miss-a-holiday? Usually peaking in their early-to-mid thirties and attenuating twenty to forty years after that.
    Again, I can't tell if you guys are really talking about the libido, the actual drive to have sex. If postponed or ignored it is usually reinforced by the production of semen and the physical need to release it. The "products" you're probably talking about are merely symptomatic relief of erectile dysfunction, the failure of the muscles in the capillaries along the penis to loosen, preventing it from swelling with blood. This can be caused by vasoconstrictors such as caffeine or antihistamines but it can also have either a psychological or physiological cause, neither of which are usually diagnosed well because the problem is generally resolved satisfactorily with a vasodilator such as Viagra. It has nothing to do with libido and men without erections can feel horny and reach orgasm, although obviously not very likely in conventional intercourse.
    No it's not. Unlike women, your hormones peaked around age 16 when all the grownups in your life were trying to keep you from having sex at all. It's a little less urgent now, and the many facets of real life that come with being a grownup are able to both distract you from sex and cause psychological reactions that temper your libido temporarily. Like you say, they're "periods" of less interest.
    Men will stick their dix in anything. Particularly if it's lubricated with alcohol.
    Kalium is the German name for the element (which is why its symbol is K), and I'm sure in some other languages. In English it's called potassium.
    Yet you continue to blow off our advice to get your horny little butt into a university, the place where even the nerdiest dweebs get laid. It would be a bonanza for you because you'd find some nerdy dweeby gal around your age who is just starting her "biological clock" early-thirties thingy and is as desperate as you are. The two of you might even hit it off.

    You sure go to a lot of trouble to make yourself miserable. I can't imagine how a guy with your IQ can tolerate going around without a college degree and settling for the insulting jobs you have to take. [Yeah yeah I know lots of guys without degrees start their own business and have a nice life but really, who expects that from Darky?]

    Go to college. Get fucked, get a degree, and get a life. It works for just about everybody else. Universities are strange and wonderful places. There are girls there who make it their mission to screw guys like you, just to make the world a happier place. Once you've done it a couple of times you become a different person. The universe treats you differently and it starts to happen with more regularity.
     
  17. visceral_instinct Monkey see, monkey denigrate Valued Senior Member

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    Oh I know that, I just choose to call it Kalium 'cause it sounds much cooler! People know what I'm on about so it's not an issue. Chemical elements are important, we shouldn't give them boring names.

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  18. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    I do more begging than my husband. Especailly since he blew out his knee and had to have sugery. I like sex best when a man is on his knees, so it has been frustrating. And winter makes it harder to sneak away and go on a 'picnic'
     
  19. Randwolf Ignorance killed the cat Valued Senior Member

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    You do realize, Orly, that if a man said this (I like sex best when the woman is on her knees), regardless of the context, he would be crucified, emasculated and hung out to dry? At least here on SF?
     
  20. visceral_instinct Monkey see, monkey denigrate Valued Senior Member

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    Yes Orly I know you meant having sex with him while kneeling, but try and make that clearer next time...the phrase on your knees does imply subjugation.

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  21. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    why? I do A LOT of things on my knees. I used to bathe my children on my knees, I work in my flower garden on my knees, I play games with my kids on my knees, I mop the floor on my knees....

    If people have had sex, why would they think on the knees is a bad thing? Wouldn't that person be making a mountain out of a non-existing mole-hill?
     
  22. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    why? :shrug:
     
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    Because it does when used in that context.
     

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