And the people who commit honor killings probably think the same about you - that you are letting your own feelings trump the truth. That they are acting in line with truth, and you are the weakling ruled by your feelings. Your absolutist approach to the topic of truth vs. happiness proposes that you know the truth, and if anyone who thinks differently than you, does not know the truth and is merely indulging in their feelings. Although I suppose you see no problem with that ... Same goes for you. ?? "Just unconditionally accept whatever you want." That sounds like a nonsensical idea, not like something actionable.