Why A Prostitute Is Better Than Dating If You Are A Heterosexual Male

Discussion in 'Free Thoughts' started by serenesam, May 16, 2013.

  1. serenesam Registered Senior Member

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    1). If you are the type of man that have a high sexual appetite, a prostitute might be better for you because you get immediate gratification. The problem with dating is that not every woman is going to sleep or have sex with you on the first date. I even recall from the canceled CBS reality show “3” in which all of the women even felt uncomfortable kissing on the first date as well as at the end of their first date during the evening hours. Some of them won’t engage in sexual activity with you even on the second, third, fourth, and subsequent dates. Some women feel more comfortable in that they need to get to know someone before actual intimacy. As Donald Trump once said, “you have to be friends first.” It is very apparent that the act of dating may constitute spending more money through a series of dates before the act of sexual intercourse compared to spending money for a one-time event with a prostitute.

    2). Dating is very time consuming. The act of going out on several occasions, making conversations of each other’s life, talking about things, spending money on gas, and getting to know each other takes up a considerable amount of time compared to the precise calculation of time spent with a prostitute. Life is very short especially if you are a heterosexual male who might have had a wife that died or someone in the middle-age to elder-age years where your sperm may start to become weaker. Having to wait several months just to have sex may be something that turns you off as time is very precious. In addition, not to sound cliché but there is a saying that “time equals money.” So while you might not actually be spending real money where you could literally take notes of debits and credits on a piece of paper, the amount of time of having to wait may be painful to you both psychologically and physically and so the little time spent with a prostitute is why the prostitute is the better route. Furthermore, the amount of time you spend may be better spent facilitating your act of working especially if you are a workaholic, which would allow you to accumulate more money through that act.

    3). The simple act of having to put up with somebody else could be a pain. Choosing the loving relationship route means you are going to have to deal with all the other issues not associated with a discrete relationship with a prostitute. You might end up having to attend therapy and that is a waste of time having to speak to a mental health professional. This could be painful if you are really the type of man that isn’t invested in emotion and feelings, something that apparently according to research, women seem to want, that “emotional bond.” You might have to take care of her if she is sick like with the flu or a cold, do some favors for her, buy her presents during the holidays, and all other stuff.

    4). Dating someone means that you are also going to have to deal with in-laws whereas a prostitute, you don’t have to worry about any of that. This one is very self-explanatory so I don’t think I need to elaborate. Let’s just say that some in-laws can be a pain. The music video “It Will Rain” by Bruno Mars can help people understand this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W-w3WfgpcGg

    5). The benefit of choosing a prostitute equates to a worry-free state of mind when it comes to pregnancy. When you in a committed long-term relationship, there may be this fear that you could get her pregnant. If she is pregnant, you might have to deal with the painful issue of abortion and if she gives birth, you might have to prepare to deal with spending money on child support especially if there divorce in the future. All that wasteful money could just be better spent with a prostitute or even an escort as you can derive pleasure from that, but you won’t be able to obtain immediate gratification with having to constantly pay child support for 18 years.

    6). Prostitutes may engage in the kind of sexual activity that your girlfriend or wife might not be comfortable with. This could explain why some men prefer prostitutes and I believe there was even a TV talk show that had guests of men saying this. Contrary to the lovely-duckly-almost-spiritual-like notion that your spouse may provide a more pleasing pleasurable experience, the sexual experience with a prostitute may actually be better but this description is very difficult to explain in words.

    7). If you are suffering from a mental illness, it might actually be better to go the prostitute route compared to the dating route. From what I have researched, people with bipolar disorder have a 90% failure rate and so when you combine all the complications with having to deal with a dating relationship, it should be obvious why the prostitute route may be better. Even just speaking generally like any other mental disorder, the patience in some other women may be too much for them to handle. I think most people regardless as to whether they are male or female don’t want to have to put up with somebody’s mental illness as I believe there is strong evidence noting the stigma associated with mental illness on a more broad-scale and macro-analysis viewpoint.

    8). The long-term amount of money spent on prostitutes may actually be a better deal for you compared to a real relationship especially if you are a rich heterosexual male. While some may say that prostitutes can be expensive, doing a cost-benefit analysis, the benefits may actually outweigh the costs taking into account all of the previously mentioned points in the above that may have nothing to do with money. In the event of a divorce (which is likely especially these days), be prepared to lose out on a lot of money if you don’t have a prenup. If you have kids, be prepared to spend money on them besides the child support if you love them and want the best for them (like taking them with you on vacation, etc.).
     
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  3. Buddha12 Valued Senior Member

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    To those NOT wanting love, trustworthiness, a family or someone who will always stand by your side then a prostitute is just fine.

    Prostitutes only want your money and that's it.
     
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  5. spidergoat Valued Senior Member

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    You both make a good case.
     
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  7. aaqucnaona This sentence is a lie Valued Senior Member

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    Fair enough. If one is not interested in the things Buddha pointed out, then prostitutes are a good option. Though it might be important to make sure that it is well regulated [preferably government licensed] so that none is forced into it and good healthcare is provided to them.
     
  8. GeoffP Caput gerat lupinum Valued Senior Member

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    is expediency so necessary as all this?
     
  9. serenesam Registered Senior Member

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    Here's an article showing one local government in Amsterdam paying for prostitutes for the disabled: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/health/7945785/Councils-pay-for-prostitutes-for-the-disabled.html

    Here's another one:

    Jurgen Van Acker is 27 years old and severely handicapped. He cannot walk, talk, sit or eat, but mentally there is nothing wrong with him. With the help of his computer he can communicate. Recently he became a television celebrity in Belgium when he asked that the welfare office pay his prostitutes.

    Source: http://www.canadafreepress.com/2005/brussels112205.htm
     
  10. andy1033 Truth Seeker Valued Senior Member

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    Not much good for males with low sex drive.

    But i agree if your into sex i see no reason why some would prefer it.

    I agree that if disabled people want such things, and they are legal in that country why not. Not everyone can chat to females, or have interest in long term relationships. There is lots of reasons why males would prefer it over dating.

    Just glad i had no interest in females, but i am sure there are plenty of disabled males, or males who are useless with interacting with females, that want such relief.

    In this sex mad world, not everyone has the right social skills to do it other ways, i cannot see whats wrong with it.
     
  11. Bowser Life is Fatal. Valued Senior Member

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    What's the saying? When you have sex with someone, you're having sex with everyone they had sex with. Prostitutes are dangerous, inviting diseases and such
     
  12. andy1033 Truth Seeker Valued Senior Member

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    But i am sure there are plenty of females in society that have had over 30 lovers in there life, and probably alot more today. They have every right to do what they want. You can be sure there is females out there in normal society that have had far more than 30 lovers in there lifes. So in life your taking the risk too.

    So i doubt those males going to those things are risking much more than most of you other males trying to score in weekends down social places.

    But i do think that being disabled and having this is a good thing, as just because your disabled does not mean that they should live without sharing something with another human. People are horrible to handicaps in real world, so finding that companionship just for a while is better than none.

    Like have you ever since in sports games, the footballer going over to some handicapped person and making sure they get a shirt of them. These poeple have no lifes, and people would of treated them like puke apart from there families. When a footballer does this it is probably the best thing that ever happened to that person, as society has treated them like dirt all there lifes just for being disabled.

    I for one agree with the dutch gov for doing this. These people are people too, and at least they understand this.
     
  13. Buddha12 Valued Senior Member

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    Prostitution only destroys marriages or would be marriages where men can buy a prostitute when their partners wouldn't have sex with them thus breaking up the relationship if and when someone finds out.
     
  14. Bowser Life is Fatal. Valued Senior Member

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    You'd be surprised how many have had only one or two lovers. It's not unique.

    There's something to be said about marriage.

    I see your point. It's a shame that a handicapped person would need to share a cheap, meaningless encounter with a prostitute. However, there may be no other way for them to acquire such contact.

    I wouldn't deny them an opportunity to share a moment with a prostitute, but they just might leave with something more than a memento.
     
  15. andy1033 Truth Seeker Valued Senior Member

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    I am talking about the amounts that have more, not the minority whom only have a few in there lifes. Scoreboards on facebook, and then they talk about others and sex, yep really.

    I am saying that handicapped people have it bad enough in life, and people destroying there lifes, whats wrong with them getting some effection from someone.

    All the ones opposed to this normally are sex mad with years and years of being predators themselves, talking rubbish about people with sad lifes.

    You find most people talking against this stuff are sex mad freaks who spent there whole lifes as sex mad predators, and then they talk about some poor handicapped person wanting some affection.

    Morons. I agree with the dutch gov, if those sad people want such things, why not.

    Most people in society are sex mad and desperate to get as much as they can, while some have severe handicaps, and these sex mad predators have a cheek to talk about people that no one has loved.

    People are morons.

    I am all for this sort of thing being available to those people, that through no fault of there own are different and left out of life.

    The rest of you sex mad freaks can head of to facebook with your sex scoreboards proclaiming how wonderful you are having 30 plus partners in your early life. Then go round proclaiming people like handicaps like in the ops story are bad, as they are just doing what they are doing, but may be handicaped and no one wants them. Most of you people are sex mad predators, and are the first ones to speak about others and sex. What a joke it is for someone with some scoreboard for sexual partners on facebook to talk about others. Mad

    I say good on the dutch gov for doing this, not sure how they would implement it.
     
  16. arauca Banned Banned

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    Thank you for posting your view . I agree wit most of them.
    A prostitute is a valuable tool in the society , I am positive it would reduce rape . In marriage some time to visit a prostitute is necessary , because a male can tolerate the wife's headaches because she does not want sex . I believe it will help also to maintain masculinity of male in the early age .
     
  17. aaqucnaona This sentence is a lie Valued Senior Member

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    Which is why I assumed the two were mutually exclusive [I said - "If one is not interested in the things Buddha pointed out"].
     
  18. Buddha12 Valued Senior Member

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    If a man marries and his wife has a headache, perhaps it is the man who gave her the headache to begin with! He shouldn't go out because he can't get laid and buy a prostitute for he is cheating on his wife and COULD bring back STD's or worse to his wife. Perhaps the prostitute wanted to blackmail the guy, he would then have many other problems wouldn't he?
     
  19. ElectricFetus Sanity going, going, gone Valued Senior Member

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    Wanting and having are two different things: you would be surprised how many couples don't have any of that, this is why divorce rates are what they are. My problem with prostitutes is that... well.. most of them are whores!
     
  20. arauca Banned Banned

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    It is a problem marriage means share yourself both way in every thing , your body your health and your wealth . How long can you hold a man from abstaining ( we are not all the same some need less some need more )
     
  21. Buddha12 Valued Senior Member

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    Masturbation works for billons of men who can't "hold on" any longer without sex with their partner.

    You do know about pre nuptial agreements whereby you both sign a contract as to what each will contribute and receive from being married and what would happen if a divorce happened.
     
  22. Buddha12 Valued Senior Member

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    The studies show that MONEY is the most prevalent cause of divorce followed by infidelity and incompatibility.
     
  23. ElectricFetus Sanity going, going, gone Valued Senior Member

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    So your saying many people, if not most want money over "love, trustworthiness, a family or someone who will always stand by your side" Or are you saying money destroys " love, trustworthiness, a family" with high effectiveness? What is human love and trust worth if it is weaker then money???
     

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