I’ve used the word “hate” before when it comes to behaviors that are abhorrent like arrogance, sexism, misogyny, etc. It’s not a bad thing to “hate” misogyny or racism for example. But I don’t believe I’ve ever hated a person. We’re all broken and even the most seemingly horrible human being, has a backstory that led him/her there. Not that we should excuse bad behaviors but hating won’t help the situation.