well than why is she coming back there than? :bugeye: Why not just meet a guy in a cafe, random chat, flirt and you got a date? There are better nighclubs I am sure, much safer...if she wants to dance to get the spirit out. If she wants to be safe, she should change herself and her attitude, and not expect someone else to bend under her. Again are those men wrong? Yes. Are they going to change? No. What should she do? Change herself.