Bell-- Perhaps you should tell us all about yourself, no? Afterall it seems we are so far off the mark. I mean it couldn't be that you are one female. Or that by the nature of the question, we can only be talking about females we have been with... It is not sexist. Every relation"ship" is a power game. And yes, she will feel better if she thinks she has control. How does it make you feel jumping on a high horse and attempting to demean the posts responding to this topic-- those you deem wrong? I don't have to do that to feel like a 'big" man, sorry. A rooster can strut? In any case, no. No. I always feel good about myself. Sccccccccared? Heh. And I was thinking maybe I'd let your around hed... hed thinking through his "sex organs": Are you a hottie? If so send me a naked pic. I was celibate in primary school, and I am no pedophile. Perhaps you need to get out of your hole and see some daylight? In these times, twentysomething and college girls do indeed put themselves in positions to be approached or go after men. I'm told that when the hed rubs off, it feels good. How then did something rub you in such a bad way? You are incorrect, so sorry.