What do you do when..

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  1. DanceAndExplode Fear me, for I am Death. Registered Senior Member

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    your hearts been broken?
    When you've felt so in love with someone and then it's all come crashing down around you?
    When everything you've felt seems like an endless lie?
    When you're angry at yourself for being so naive for believing that it was real?

    i dont know what to do.. i really need some help here
    im feeling really depressed and i dont wanna go back to the way i used to be

    any help or advice would be greatly appreciated guys. thanks
     
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  3. lucifers angel same shit, differant day!! Registered Senior Member

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    hey there,

    what i used to do is, go out with my mates, retail therapy always helped, then listen to some up beat music, (a piece of music that makes you smile), and then i think of ways to mend my heart,
     
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  5. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    I always wrote a letter to the person who hurt me telling them exactly how I felt and why. Telling them what kind of person they were and why. It helped me get it all out.
    Then throw the letter away.
     
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  7. lucifers angel same shit, differant day!! Registered Senior Member

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    that was a good one!!
     
  8. Fugu-dono Scholar Of Shen Zhou Registered Senior Member

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    Do active things and concentrate on study and/or work. Hang out with mates. Be positive because there are soooo many fish in the sea. Be strong and look over flaw of self and the other person. Evaluate what you want and yourself. No point to bitch and whine about it ne. What's done is done. Never look back unless it's to learn past mistakes for improvement. The future is before and it's full of possibilities.
     
  9. darksidZz Valued Senior Member

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    You are a good female, the problem is we are social animals and require regular interaction with others. I suggest you are a women, so use your womenliness to attract the right mate. There is no reason you cannot expand your horizons abit, leave behind the trash that lacks vision.
     
  10. lucifers angel same shit, differant day!! Registered Senior Member

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    she needs a stiff drink!! i knwo i do right now
     
  11. mikenostic Stop pretending you're smart! Registered Senior Member

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    *runs and grabs the bottle of Capt Morgan and some shot glasses*

    Dance,
    A slightly different situation, but same end result happened to me a few months ago (yes, it can happen to guys too).
    The best advice I can give you is to stay as busy as you can to keep your mind off it.
    Go hang out with friends, but I would tread lightly concerning where getting back into dating is concerned; You might find yourself thinking about your ex, and that's not very fair to your date.
    IMO, the only thing that can really fix situations like this is time. You have to find some way to push through. Other than suicide (which shouldn't be an option, period), you really don't have much choice.
    I hope I didn't sound too brash, but I didn't want to sugarcoat it either. No one enjoys situations like this.
    But in the meantime, you can always talk to your friends here!

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  12. lucifers angel same shit, differant day!! Registered Senior Member

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    hey dance i wil be on msn later feel free to message me.

    you have me on your list
     
  13. poontang Registered Senior Member

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    do you not have any real life friends you can ask instead of posting on a science forum.....
     
  14. lucifers angel same shit, differant day!! Registered Senior Member

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    yes me i am her friend!!

    i suggest she goes and gets pissed. or if she cant i'll do it for her.

    me and dance talk a lot on msn.
     
  15. DanceAndExplode Fear me, for I am Death. Registered Senior Member

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    hmm.. well if i was in a crappy mood... id say FUCK YOU.. but luckily im not

    but FUCK YOU anyway
     
  16. lucifers angel same shit, differant day!! Registered Senior Member

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    lol, feeling better are we today dance??

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  17. DanceAndExplode Fear me, for I am Death. Registered Senior Member

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    not really.. but people like that just piss me off really bad.
    anyway.. i think you'd have to have that drink for me, considering i dont drink lol
     
  18. lucifers angel same shit, differant day!! Registered Senior Member

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    ok i'm heading out tonight to a local club, so i'll see if i can fot a drink in for you!! oh i dare say i'll manage
     

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