Trust on the internet

Discussion in 'Free Thoughts' started by fabled_dreamer, Aug 1, 2002.

  1. fabled_dreamer Registered Member

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    How much trust exists on the internet..

    for example would you buy something off of me for say £15, with no actually guarantee you will get anything from me, other then my word.

    Does my word mean anything to anyone on the internet?

    The internet can be a very powerful tool, but will/do too many people take advantage of 'trust' therefore making it worthless.

    The reason for this was beacause just recently someone I met in a chat room e-mailed me saying he would buy a CD off me for £20-
    because he claimed he could not buy it where he lived, which again he claimed was sweden.

    At first I was very sceptical, could i trust this person? Could i trust anyone... to me the more inportant thing wasn't the money, but having to give my address to a complete stranger.

    And to my disbelief, he recieved it, and sent me the money.

    I was wrong, but this is just one person...
     
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  3. Thor "Pfft, Rebel scum!" Valued Senior Member

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    I don't even know you. You only have 3 posts.
    I don't trust anyone, not even my cat
     
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  5. Joeman Eviiiiiiiil Clown Registered Senior Member

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    Hi, I am Brad Pitt

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  7. NightFall Lazy Hedonist Valued Senior Member

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    i think it depends on the amount of money. if it is something little and i wanted it, sure! but usually id check ebay or something first where i knew that i would get my money/item. as for the adress, id stick with po box if it was person-person.
     
  8. lotuseatsvipers CloseMindedBob Registered Senior Member

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    LIAR!

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  9. kmguru Staff Member

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    Think e-Bay, where the trading happens between two unknown persons. Sometimes there are problems. Usually the buyer pays first before receiving merchandise. The idea is, since the seller would make a profit, it is in his/her best interest to be honest so that he/she can sell more junk in the future.
     
  10. Thor "Pfft, Rebel scum!" Valued Senior Member

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    You should only buy from well known sites. EBay being one as it is popular and you could get hold of the owner if you decide to make a lawsuit.

    Joeman you liar. I'm Brad Pitt
     
  11. Xev Registered Senior Member

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    You can trust me. I will not hurt you or anything....I just want to keep your credit card numbers safe from, ah, theives.

    I don't trust nobody, and nobody don't trust me, and that's the way the world should work.

    BTW, I am actually Xev. The real one.
     
  12. MRC_Hans Skeptic Registered Senior Member

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    I trust some people, also some I only ever "met" online. But of course the amount of trust is inversely proportional with the amount of value involved. I'd be willing to send, say, 10$ into the blue, if the deal seemed reasonable. There are few people I would send 100$, and I cant offhand think of a situation where I would settle a 1000$ deal with somebody I met on the www.

    :bugeye: Hans:bugeye:
     
  13. nroweatherman Registered Senior Member

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    as a general rule

    you'll find americans less trustworthy than elsewhere. I used to sell rare movies on vhs. so somebody refered my name to a guy saying I had the movie he was looking for. So thru email I talked to the guy & agreed to a price. but it was about a week before xmas so I sent it "on trust"... before the check arrived. It was written on an inactive account. now I could have waited & found out the check was bad & all that but my feeling was why do I want to be so paranoid. might as well give somebody the benefit of the doubt. guy lived up to the general rule.

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  14. Captain_Crunch Club Ninja Valued Senior Member

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    so, the moral of the story is: never trust americans.

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  15. Asguard Kiss my dark side Valued Senior Member

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    well cirtan people on here have my address and EVERYONE has access to my phone number now

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    i don't care about my mobile number but cause i live with my parents my home number and address i don't give out
     
  16. fabled_dreamer Registered Member

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    Hmmm... on this account

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    Who are the most trust worthy people then? Not America by the sounds of it.
     
  17. Pine_net Chaos Product Registered Senior Member

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    Trust is an illusion

    A true trust relationship could only happen through a truely open Society. Since I can't read your mind...yet...and quantum security systems haven't been built...yet...trust you see, is just an illusion.

    Am I making any sense? Don't trust what I say, I could be wrong.

    heh
     
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  18. Don H Registered Senior Member

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    While everyone else was worried about the trust issue I bought an item over the internet from Europe and received an item worth 10 times the cost.

    I ran into 3 criminals on ebay that still practice their craft there with ebay's protection.
     
  19. Pine_net Chaos Product Registered Senior Member

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    The true meaning of a good deal.

    Protective as in what way? Do you mean that there moves are now being watched and cataloged for further examination, or do you mean E-bay is protecting their identities?

    I'm not really worried over the issue myself persay. It's really all about property rights and digital rights. Will there be a digital set of Miranda Rights for us U.S.A. ers?
     
  20. lotuseatsvipers CloseMindedBob Registered Senior Member

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    God is there anything that 'you' people don't hate Americans for? Listen to yourselves! I'm quiet annoyed, no wonder so many Americans turn into 'in your face patriots', I am now a border one thanks to all of you sciforum American haters!

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    sheesh!
     
  21. Captain_Crunch Club Ninja Valued Senior Member

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    and you werent a patriot before?

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    , i was just having a little dig, did'nt mean anything by it, you know me, any chance and i'll take it.
     
  22. wet1 Wanderer Registered Senior Member

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    Let me give you a saying that pretty well reflects the extent of my trust on the 'net.

    Love many, trust few, always paddle your own canoe...
     
  23. Bebelina kospla.com Valued Senior Member

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    "Who are the most trust worthy people then?"
    Swedes, obviously.

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