Ok this thrrad kinda talks about s*x so sorry don't read it if it if y don't like that kinda stuff. So my friends were like talking about how i'm a virgin. They were basicly saying how great it is and how they feel sorry for me that I don't do that... But I feel that I want to do it with a boy I love.. Not just a boy thats cute. They argue that most girls want it more than boys, which like ya I think about it a little but I don't act on it because I have self control. This is the argument I made... There is two different views on s*x. One is omg I'm so h**ny, and I want to feel good. Then there is the I love him so much, and I want to be closer. I said that testosterone coincides with the 1st, while estrogen with the End. So my argument is that maby I just don't have alot of testosterone, so I don't feel that. While some girls may have more and get like that. Boys always have testosterone, so thats why they think that way. In conclusion, I think that I just have less testosterone so I don't really have the big desire to do it unless I was inlove.. So its not abnormal for me, it's just normal. So low testosterone high estrogen = s*x to feel closer and high testosterone low estrogen = s*x for pleasure and lust What do you think??
I think you shouldn't worry about it. Just look at me, I am a guy at age 21 and I never had sex. Am I horney? big time every day. Do I want sex? Yeah. But I am just not lucky to find a girl to fall in love, I realize now that to fall in love you need to come closer to the person yourself and initiate that love...it will not just come to you. You got to work for it. So yeah...and you are 14 which is like for a girl to be thinking about sex with love is like totally soon, of course you can create an illusion within you that you love someone...but than thats why there are so many divorces in USA, they all create that illusion and that it breaks.
This whole generation is a joke. You know what, if you guys want to nail girls in a spur of the moment, go right ahead. See how far it gets you. Sorry for having morals, and not being an animal. Seems to be the going rate around here. Have funs with your kids, and STD's. But to tell ya' the truth, I doubt any of you are getting laid in the first place. Why? Because a guy who actually does get laid, doesn't have to kiss and tell. Least off all, on the INTERNET! You guys really need to get lives. I can't believe I've even contributed to this garbage. I must be in need of a life of my own, just on the basis of sharing my thoughts with you morons. Have fun bragging to each other about how many sluts in you banged in under 2 minutes. I'm sure it is a great experience for all of you.Look I don't care what you do. Go ahead, bang away at those skeezers. Myself, I don't think it is a good idea to do so. How well could you possibly know a girl after 2 hours? Enough to sleep with her? This is the point I'm trying to get across. What these people seem to not understand is, is that you are sharing your body with someone when you have sex. Plenty of bad things could happen when you do this. How much thought could you possibly give this in what, 2 hours? Oh, and Bruno, I'm quite capable of speaking on my own behalf. I appreciate the help, but I'm not in any real need of it, so thanks, but no thanks. So as of Jul 17, 2006 do what ya' want. You wanna bang sluts after 10 minutes, go right ahead. When you wake up the next morning pissing out razorblades, just remember I told ya' so.
This is actually an interesting question --- although you're making a bit of a leap with your correlations related to "psychological attachment" as applied to yourself (estrogen = closeness; testosterone = lust). Those things certainly relate with the stereotypical "male" strategy vs the typical "female", but I would question whether it was due to the presence of hormones, or social influences. Who's to say that a person with high testosterone wouldn't associate "feeling closer" with "sex"?
I believe estrogen= growth. Thats why girls start puberty sooner than boys do. Estrogen levels increase when an ovum is growing. Oxytocin is the "closeness" hormone apparently. And men have more of this hormone after a sexual encounter while women generally have higher levels all of the time.
When you grow up you'll realize that you despise 90% of all people period. With good reason I might add..
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