Irrelevant much? When complaints are made, they say 'you have no proof', go away! When proofs' are presented, they cry OCD much! See how it works, against the victim getting 'painted' in such a way that he becomes the problem rather than the abusers? How could you even go there, mate? Have you no common sense or decency regarding all the other victims out there who are also fighting for the right to be heard by a system which up till now was stacked against them being heard and so being called/characterized as you have just done?? Shame on you. Such issues as these IN PRINCIPLE and IN REALITY all over the world, in many contexts, is beyond mere 'cheap shot' politics like that. Reconsider your 'impressions' from being uninformed in the matters you are making so light of. If you didn't mean to demean victims in such circumstances, quinnsong, then a simple 'sorry' will suffice to clear you of any taint as 'apologist' fro the abusers, whatever the context. Thanks.