safely? What do you mean? They aren't gonna drown in the shower and as for falling, well they do that on the sidewalk, in the kitchen, in the sandbox.... And no they probably don't brush their teeth properly at 2, but its how they learn. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
It's really cute. He stands there and washes his own hair, belly, willy and bottom naming each bit as he goes. We just do the rest for him. His teeth he can do the front really well and we help him do the back one's (we guide his toothbrush). He's never left alone in the bathroom under any circumstance.Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! We just made sure he got the hang of it as soon as he was able to, as in we would guide his hands with his baby soap and it just went on from there. He is also able to eat by himself and pour his own milk.. sloppy but it's how they learn.
Bells: What?! You don't even iron his shirts? Your husband should 'trade up'! peta9: I have the sudden urge to place you on ignore. I HATE little children.
LOL, burn a few shirts and he'll never ask again. After he tries ironing shirts himself, he learns to buy those that don't need it. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
Yep. I don't iron his shirts or any other items of his clothing. He also does his own and our laundry if it needs to be done. Nor do I kneel down and clip his toenails. I also don't feed him, bathe him, dress him or tell him what to wear.Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
Orleander: What? You think it's hard to iron shirts? I iron my clothes (crinkled shirts, jeans, whatever, but I don't bother ironing something which isn't crinkled) all the time. You'd need to be friggen thick to burn them. Bells: Then why on earth did he marry you? Jeesh.
LOL, I burned them on purpose. He tried ironing them and thought it was too much work. And of course you iron your own shirts. Its how its supposed to be. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
Orleander: Jeesh, I thought only guys used the trick of 'Do a really shitty job so that she has to do it!' On top of having to work 40 hours a week? Sure, I sympathize. If he works like a slave, 8 hours a day to bring home the bread, then it's a reasonable expectation that YOU iron his shirts. If you both work, then it's a reasonable expectation that he iron his own shirts.
I agree. And he works 10 hrs a day. Its a marriage and you help eachother. Its not a police state where rules are rules.
Orleander: So you agree that instead of burning his shirts, you should make them nice and flat, so that he looks like a professional when he goes to work to put food on the table? Sure. It's your marriage, and stuff like that should be negotiable. It just pisses me off when women who sit at home are like "Hah, that chauvanist pig can iron his own shirts, the lazy fucker!" when that 'lazy fucker' works 8 hours (apparently ten in your case) to make ends meet.
Fair enough. If you also work, then you shouldn't be expected to iron his shirts. See, I'm reasonable! Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
I beat him regularly. I particularly like it when he hides in the corner whimpering, while I scream "I am WOMAN.. Hear me ROAR!". Makes me feel strong. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! RAWR! Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
In my house: I cook/he washes dishes He washes laundry/I fold Son brings in groceries, daughter puts them away Son puts away dishes, daughter sets table Son takes out garbage Daughter feeds cats son cleans bathroom daughter cleans cat litter boxes My husband and I take turns sweeping the house. One week its his, the next its mine.
i have not worked in ten years and everytime my girlfriend comes home i rub her feet no matter how bad they smell. these are things you have to do.
