No, I'm telling you that the article strongly suggests that she was emotionally abused into getting an abortion in the first place, that the abortion does not appear to have been her choice. Do you understand the difference? Or are you as clueless as your husband when it comes to abusive relationships and emotional/mental abuse. There are some fairly safe inferences that can be made. The wording of the article is quite clear. My claims only support your original claims if you're a clueless dinosaur from the sixties, but it is becoming increasingly apparent to me that neither you or your husband know the first thing about abusive relationships and the power words have over people. And as much as it galls me to say so, I hope you never do. Yup. Clueless. Unless this women gets some counseling (she won't, she's being treated as a criminal rather than a victim) when she gets back out of Jail, she'll probably go right back to him. Funnily enough, to the best of my recollection, the only people that claimed that he was the boyfriend were you and your husband.