Just because I have a revolving door when it comes to females doesn't mean I don't have standards. As long as she is hot, and not a ho, that is all that counts. Males and females have very different positions in society. Thus, they do not abide by the same attributes for attraction. This is because males are blithering idiots IMO. I get pissed off at males because males are so pathetic. One of the important things to note is that girls ge together all the time, and develop strategies when it comes to boys. Girls always conspire. Males conspiring is practically nonexistent and it sucks. Males have a huge disadvantage not because they are bad at strategy but because they simply don't conspire. Girls will get together, and plan how they are going to act in front of boys in order to manipulate them. Girls will also keep each other in check to keep eachother from losing the upper hand with boys. Girls set standards in order to stay on top. For example, they will tell each other not to call a guy no matter what. Boom - you have a group of girls who, regardless of how much they like a boy, will not call him. All as a strategy. One girl with this standard is nothing. When a group of girls get together, and set a bunch of standards, they are powerful. Girls always talk to eachother about how they are going to mess with boys. Boys on the other hand typically talk about how hot a girl is, and how they want to bang her. Boys, almost always, go into battle with absolutely no backup or any plans whatsoever. Girls shoot them down like geese. Then the boy wonders where he went wrong. If a group of boys get together, and use any form of strategim with eachother in any form, even if it sucks. This will totally throw girls off. Girls are not used to guys teaming up. As such, their defenses are completely shot. So here we have a society in which girls are higher in demand because boys are stupid. I can give an example of one time I got pretty pissed off. We were doing a group activity. The group was divided btw girls and boys. So here were the 2 groups doing their thing separately. Then the girl group yells out "your group is too loud so please keep it down". The boys respectfully lowered their voices. When the girls were getting a little loud, somebody from the boy group told them the same thing. The girl group instantly witout flinching got louder just to mess with the boys. Girls go into battle as a group. Boys go into battle alone. Bottom line. Girls conspire. Boys compete. That is the downfall of the boy. So here is the difference: Girl goes out - Tons of boys hitting on her left and right like a plague. Boy goes out- Nothing. If he wants girl, he has to deal with competition. A boy with lots of girls is great. A girl with lots of boys is nothing special. Because of this social structure, there is no reason for me to see a promiscuous boy in the same light as a promiscuous girl. A boy can sleep with different girls, and still have high standards in his choices. A girl who sleeps with different guys means she has low standards. A person with low standards is not very attractive. Sperms go for egg. Sperm that reaches the egg is the winner. Guys that get the girl is the winner. Getting more girls is not going to make him look worser. Egg will get the winnder sperm. Girls getting a guy to sleep with is not a huge task. Girls sleeping with lots of guys means she is not very selective.